i have a boyfriend and I love him sooooo... much and want to be with him so bad but the problem is that sometimes i don't believe him.his 19 and I'm 18.he says that he still has his V card but he tride it and it hurted him so bad.i just can't understand how does it hurts hime.all the other guys that i have ask said it's nothing it feels good but he said it hurts.we both want to wait until we get married but i don't know is he the right one for me.
2006-09-20 03:31:31 · 11 answers · asked by keyke 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to ask, then the answer is no.
2006-09-20 03:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by Morgy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the girl he was with was a freak. Either way though it shouldn't have hurt him. He should seek a medical opinion on the matter. Something could be wrong with his guy stuff.
As far as marrying him, don't do it. When he's the right one you'll know it from the top of your head to the tip of your toes and nothing will change your mind. Look around for Mr. Right because unfortunately, he's not the one.
2006-09-20 03:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first if you don't know if he's the right one, then shouldn't you wait? I mean, if you're waiting until you get married, then aren't you jumping ahead of things a bit. If he's not the right one, you won't get married, then you won't have to worry about the sex. However, about the v-card, if the guy isn't circumsized, it usually does hurt. I don't know the circumstances, I'm just thinking you're maybe making a big deal out of something you're not really ready for.
2006-09-20 03:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it only hurts if u dont lubercate the lady so prbly he tried pushing in a dry well i dont know but he shud see a doctor.and if u really luv him sex shudnt be the first thing on the list
2006-09-20 03:39:20 · answer #4 · answered by cedeno_anthony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't fully understand your question, but if you have to ask if someone is right for you, then the answer is no, he isn't. When someone is right, you absolutely know.
2006-09-20 03:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thern you need to ask some hard, tough questions of each other
2006-09-20 03:33:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just follow what you think not what people on here think...most of the time its easyer...if you can say everything the way you mean it...i had a very hard time understaniding taht
2006-09-20 03:39:26 · answer #7 · answered by alex h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably needs to see a doctor and find out why it hurt him.....
is he uncircumsized? if the foreskin isn't retracted carefully that could cause immense pain.....if the woman was really tight....
2006-09-20 03:34:50 · answer #8 · answered by myheartisjames 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he got rimmed thats why it hurts!
2006-09-20 03:37:08 · answer #9 · answered by lisette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, please urge him to see a doctor!
second, if you don't trust him, do you really want a marriage without trust?
2006-09-20 03:34:14 · answer #10 · answered by kiki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋