About 3months ago my Xg/f and I broke up.Now recently,we started keeping in touch again.She confessed to me that the reason we broke up was because she was severely influanced by her folks.(especially her mom)It turns out that her mother doesn't approve of me.I still love with all my heart.Should i give her another chance???
2006-09-20 03:30:58 · 21 answers · asked by seifer912a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, if you love her and she loves you -- what is the question?
It shouldn't matter what other people think.
My parents didn't approve of my boyfriend and we have been together almost 3 years. We thoughed it out and they are finally coming around, but it took time.
They thought he wasn't good enough. Well he is. I knew it and I still know it. It will be rough but if you care about don't worry about anything else. Just take care of each other and love each other the rest will work out.
2006-09-20 03:41:29 · answer #1 · answered by Farmgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you truly love this girl and you think that you can trust her with her story then sure. I mean, the worst thats going to happen is you break up again because you found out what she said wasnt true. i would go for it anyway because most of the time you dont get second chances. take this and run with it!!
and be understanding if her parents are rude to you at all. make an effort to go over her house and make a good impression on her parents by hanging out with them and then they should start to like you. get a conversation started that you know you can both relate to. if they still refuse to accept you then thats their problem. some parents are just rude and dont want their daughter out with anyone. just be patient
good luck!!
2006-09-20 10:38:37 · answer #2 · answered by ice hcky rulz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is yes, I had the same situation happen to me but it was the other way around. His family did not want me and because of the pressure they put on him we seperated for some time but we kept in touch, until we realized that we couldn't be without each other and that we had to live our lives and not theirs. That was back on 2002 and till this day we are still together and getting married.His family has learned to accept me and so will hers.
Best of Luck!!!
2006-09-20 10:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy go for that girl hon if you love some body you should not let anybody get in the way of your happiness because every body needs to be happy and they need to let her live her own life because they have are already lived theirs and they will not always be there to tell her what to do. S o you go for that girl.
2006-09-20 10:53:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, how much influence does her mom have over her? If she's still living at home, probably a lot! It sounds like the making of a soap opera and you really don't need that kind of stress in your life.
2006-09-20 10:35:31 · answer #5 · answered by scorpion187us 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww that is so sweet you still love her. I say go for it because not every person you talk to family is going to like you. If you still love her, then give it another chance. Hopefully she is old enough to make her own decisions.
2006-09-20 10:54:31 · answer #6 · answered by shy_isha18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is entirely your choice, but you must consider one thing. Her mom. Sorry to tell ya this, but her mom isn't going anywhere. If she influenced her enough to split from you the first time, what is going to stop it from happening again? I'm not saying you shouldn't get back with her. That is your decision. Just think about it first.
2006-09-20 10:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can give her all the chances you'd like to but the problem will always be that she can't make desicion on her own, her parents will always rule her feelings. Can you see yourself going through that? You'll be in relationship with her parents...not her....
But good luck with that.
2006-09-20 10:34:54 · answer #8 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would give her another chance but sit down and have a heart to heart with her about the evils of everybody butting into your business and the ramifications that can arise from listening to everybody but each other
2006-09-20 10:53:46 · answer #9 · answered by toyloy27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is to follow your heart and see that if she still likes you too.....Love is about the feelings you share between you and your partner, so don't care about what other people think.....you decide it...
2006-09-20 10:39:46 · answer #10 · answered by Trice~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋