Are older men better.?

Question

it was suggested to me on an earlier question that i get an older man.
how much older should they be and what are their secrets??

oh spindocc are you stalking me, thats illegal you know. ok lets get this straight. the gender bias wasn't aimed at you i just continued it under your name, i put it in capitals so that everyone would read it.
as for telling you to get lost because of a differing opinion, i asked a question you did not answer it, instead you got personal and attacked my ability to do my job. as you don't know me i found this quite rude as i expect would many other people if you did the same. i'm sure you would have been equally as upset if you had posted a sensible question and been insulted by a stranger, so yes sweetie you did hit a nerve, as i'm sure i did with you or you wouldn't keep looking me up would you babes.
is that intelligent and unbiased enough for you. answer my questions with a difference of opinion i have no problems, insult me and i attack.

" by showing your emotion you're robbing your subject of their own chance to express what they feel"
i showed my emotion on an anonymous Q&A site, YOU PRESUMED i did this at work and questioned my objectivity and therefore my ability to do my job. if thats not an attack i don't know what is. i did not attack you personally nor did i question your whether you have the right to answer the question. i simply told you to get lost as you did not answer mine, the question was should these people be punished Not who should punish them. and by the way as a psychotherapist i have to have regular counselling sessions my self and have been encouraged to let out the emotion i have to supress in my sessions. I believe this is what i did. if you took my next "joke" question as a personal attack then i think that says more about you.
I also said i was going to sleep with the british army, is that true.... who knows but i'm praying you are neither british nor a soldier. ciao..

Answer 1

As the guy who suggested this, maybe I should refrain from answering ... but what the hell!

Older men have the necessary experience, particularly in satisfying a woman's needs in the bedroom - remember the original question was about Angel losing her virginity to a wanker -and don't think about their own satisfaction until they have given the woman some of her own. Older men don't necessarily want the woman as another trophy or notch on the bedpost and are caring, gentle and patient ... they have experienced different positions, techniques and fetishes and know how to treat a lady generally from the first steps of seduction to the afterglow of a successful union ... so because I'm over 40 and have enjoyed over 30 years of sexual activity, I feel a girl who has been let down by a young "stud" (for want of a better word) should be entitled to seek the attentions of an older man - not necessarily as a sugar daddy or meal ticket - to allow her to see that sex isn't all "wham bam, thank you ma'am!"

Argue all you like ... I only suggested it and although it would be nice to think I could give Angel the benefit of my experience, it's up to her and possibly you to decide!

For bravery in the line of fire, I reckon this is worth 10 points!

Take care everyone, and enjoy whatever you do with whomever you do it ....

Answer 2

Depends on your age to start. if you are younger than 20 I'd say don't go older than 5yrs. Otherwise you get that weird pervy father figure thing going on.

I think a 10 yr age gap is perfectly normal, and that means 10yrs more experience. There are up sides and down sides to this depending on the man in question. If the man is a bit of a slag he has had 10 more yrs than you to sleep about you have to worry about STI's and the huge competition that you are up against. He's more likely to be secretly married. Higher possibility of impotence. 10 whole yrs to get their story straight, about where they have been and who with! If they are cheaters then they will know more tricks than you know telling signs.

There are so many good things though. I am 22 and older men are always more attractive, because 22 yr old men are scrawny. They don't fit in their bodies yet. Their faces seem to have less expressions. They are cocky and superficial. older men are the classic guys most girls want. The ones that will listen to them, and be considerate and lets face it, be worshipped! Older men definitely seem to appreciate you more, and that's attractive.

Answer 3

There is NO situation in which an older man is better than a younger one.

Human males reach their sexual peak at 27 and from then on its all down hill. It starts to POINT downhill, too.

Maybe you have the type of personality which would be more comfortable with a "sugar Daddy" type figure, which is why people suggest such a thing.

An older man might have more money, that's all.

Answer 4

Angel, a relationship is not like walking into a store and picking it off the shelve, its more than that. It has to do with ur emotions and heart, all the elements has to come into play. So in finding a suitable relationship that makes u happy and full of love, i dont think its has to be with an older or younger man. Love is like water, it must flow cos its a natural process of life. Whoever can give u love and make u happy is your perfect match, so go out there and live ur life and be happy with whoever u wanna be with as long as u are happy and find true love.

Answer 5

When I was age 7, I was about 50 in my head.

I've been working down slowly and now I'm back to about 15.

The only bug bear is that when I look in the mirror there is this old b*stard looking back at me.

On balance it would be best to be sort of 'age neutral' so far as possible.

I know that's beside the point but it has a sort of relevance in a tangential way.

Answer 6

Old enough to keep you from being a petulant child who resorts to violence when she doesn't get her way....someone who'll keep you from saying things they'll regret later on.

Btw, check out edits I made to your previous questions.

See? told you I'd get lost only when I'm good and ready...

Edit: Stalking you? don't flatter yourself... And if you follow your own advice and read the answers people give you, you'd see that I did answer your question when I basically said leave it to other people to decide who's at fault and how to punish them...If you saw the first part as an attack instead of an honest appraisal of your question and the way it was presented, then that's not my problem...it's yours....ok, now i'm bored with you....i'll "get lost" now...hope you work on those anger management issues... adios.

Answer 7

People say that because women mature quicker than men. So to have a man who is mature as you. You would most likely have to get a guy older than you. Im not certain at how much quicker you women mature. But thats basicly the reason.. That and also, older tends to mean more experienced. So its nothing special, just means if you date an older man. Hes more likely to be as mature as you are, and will have more experience than yourself.

Answer 8

I am 32and i screw women aged 22-27.One thing i found out was that younger they are the more they enjoy themselves.however it is hard getting started with young women..so get an older man, say around 8-10 years older for a purely sexual trip.But don't get emotionally attached because relations with older men usually are short term

Answer 9

Actually, it depends what you're looking for. Maturity chronologically speaking doesn't necessarily mean psychological maturity. Nor does it mean that they are financially secure. Different ages simply means they are facing new challenges within the process. Happiness does not come from relationship with anyone other than yourself. The old adage 'Know Thyself' could not be truer. Consider what you bring to a relationship first. Everything after that is icing on the cake.

Answer 10

With age comes maturity and experience however men are alll different. I think people get hooked on saying how different men and women are when actually they have needs and feelings and lots of other things that women have and feel. Never try and covince a man to want you, it is most definately not worth the effort in my experience.