what were the excat words ?
this guy making this asking out thing a big issue and taking too long, getting nervous,scaredand shy. i'm dying to go out with him.
done with all signals thing and stuff.
2006-09-20 03:19:05 · 10 answers · asked by nicole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If this guy you are interested in is shy, best suggestion is for you to muster up enough courage and ask him out. If you are also shy, write him a note, email, text message or something along those lines.
Oh and my fiance & I met online 2 years ago, moved in after one month and are now planning our marriage for next year. If it weren't for emails, he'd never have asked me out...........he is shy also. lol.
2006-09-20 03:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were the one that was going to throw him down on the bed and say "What, you don't think I'm attractive?" Right? I liked that approach.
To answer your question, I just ask if you wanna hang out and do something. It's not really that hard but then again I'm certainly not shy. Maybe you should go out with me lol J/K!
I really do think you're going to have to make the first move with this guy. It's not a bad thing when the girl makes the first move
2006-09-20 10:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the guy is good but maybe that shy, I think a girl could ask him out as well. Even it wasthe same for me b4. My girl was like giving me all sorts of hints , so much that even my friends noticed and told me that maybe even she likes me too. Then finally i was bold enough and things are fine. But i could have never made the move.
2006-09-20 10:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nicole, if he's handicapped in being shy, scared and shy, then it behoves on you to take the initiative. My mom would say: if a man sees a snake and doesn't really know what to do, and a lady kills the snake, the joy of everyone is that the snake doesn't escape. So, if he hasn't asked you out hitherto, then, you ask him out, if you truly love him. You'll be better for it, I can assure you. Cheers and best of luck.
2006-09-20 10:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we were going to a Xmas party for work and I told her to wear a mini skirt and tight sweater and she did and we went out after wards just ask him out do not be shy
2006-09-20 10:34:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is shy what do u expect
u should go up to him without pressuring him and ignitiate everything forget about all these signals
some guys dont pick up on signs
go for it
2006-09-20 11:14:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, direct your conversation toward a movie, if you want to go out with him. since you can be waiting until you're gray for him to ask you out. it's a friendly casual date. then he'll feel more comforatable around you. after that, he'll be the one who ask you.
2006-09-20 10:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him Nicole. He might be not shy but polite, who tries to keep you back, but if so, you would see clearly, and if not, you can go on.
2006-09-20 10:45:16 · answer #8 · answered by alinkele 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is shy thats why he is doing that. why dont you ask him out.
2006-09-20 10:21:35 · answer #9 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they do what they like..you do what u like
2006-09-20 10:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by pcbrd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋