2006-09-20 03:18:22 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Men, or perhaps more correctly I should say boys, will give the impression that they want an "experienced" girl. However, in truth, most have a drean of marrying a virgin. Where they expect to find all these virgin girls is a mystery though, as most have been used by men to gain experience.
Believe me, there would be nothing better than for you to be a virgin on your wedding night, and him also. Forget experience, you will have the whole of your lives to learn together, and th absolute assurance that you cannot contract any nasty sexual infections.
Wait for mr right, marry him, and explore the world of sex together, and exclusively. It is a wonderful thing, but, experienced too soon in the wrong circumstances can spell disaster.
Hang on to your virginity, hold your head up high, snd be proud of yourself.
2006-09-20 06:19:14 · answer #1 · answered by tizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so not a bad thing! I'm a virgin and I plan to be until my honeymoon! It my not be cool or popular and you may get made fun of (I certainly have.), but it is so worth the wait! There's this totally awesome book called 'And the Bride Wore White' and this lady wrote about being a virgin and why you should and all this really helpful stuff!
2006-09-20 03:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by Lacking Daisies 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not a bad thing. I wish I had waited and been more educated when I was young. I had my first child when I was 18 and I am lucky that I didn't end up with a disease. I also learned that sex isn't the important thing and means nothing to men once the task is complete. I think it's wonderful that you are waiting for that special someone, instead of wasting time with men who have one thing on their mind. Weed out the bad ones and get you a good man!
2006-09-20 03:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle Lynn 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If your a virgin and your 18 that is great. And even better in the eyes of the lord. Do you know so many people would love to have held out that long even me. I wish i would have waited but I'm not gone to say regret it because i knew what i was getting my self into i didn't like sex at all but hey i made a mistake i try to show my true love that i love him more then anything and it wasn't even all that. It was painful and not fun at all. But hey like i said ill never say i regret it because i take responsibility for my actions. but i wish i would have waited. Becasue sex just gave us something else to throw into the arguement
2006-09-20 03:23:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. I'm older then that and a virgin, and very happy to be so. I'm saving myself for marriage (a personal choice, not religious one). It's only a "bad thing" because of peer pressure.
2006-09-20 03:21:16 · answer #5 · answered by sister steph 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nah that's a good thing. I'm 19 and still a virgin too. The girls really made that choice for me..but yeah.. :P
2006-09-20 03:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by Southpaw 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, I was a virgin till I was nearly 19. There is no need to rush.
2006-09-20 05:43:15 · answer #7 · answered by Seph7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ! If you have kept your Virginity it is to be commended ! It is a Good Thing. Why do you think otherwise ?
Save yourself until Marriage. Believe me you will be Happier with yourself when all is said, and done ! I know this.......
2006-09-20 03:34:46 · answer #8 · answered by Minister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! it is a great thing to reserve yourself for the purity of marriage as God intended. You have no reason to be ashamed of this particular choice, even if you're NOT a Christian! There are many repercussions both physical and emotional if you make what turns out to be a bad choice for yourself in this matter, so keep your head up and be proud of your decision!
2006-09-20 03:22:47 · answer #9 · answered by bigvol662004 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My daughter is almost 19 and a virgin, she is very proud that she took a vow of purity and will wait fro marriage. As he Mother of course I am very pleased with her decision also as well as her Father, and brothers..
2006-09-20 03:23:42 · answer #10 · answered by heresyhunter@sbcglobal.net 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋