Okay well here is the deal...I am totally single...but i have a special friend..ya know one with bennifits...and we have sex but he really isnt that big...at all. I mean there is small and than there is like...tiny. So...should i contine faking these horendous orgasms that dont really exist or should i actually tell him (in a polite way) that he is really not doing a whole lot for me and maybe we should try something else? But what can we really do different?
2006-09-20 03:13:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should never fake an orgasm. The fact that you did strips you of any right to complain about your friend's performance, because you were "telling" him that he was doing great. Nonetheless, there's no need to make him feel bad by telling the truth now. Instead, just suggest new things to him, things that will result in REAL orgasms. If he consistently won't, even after you stop faking, tell him that you've decided you want to get ready to have a real BF again so you're quitting the "special" time.
2006-09-20 03:19:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is getting more out of it than you. Why are you having sex with him if you get nothing out of it? Just because he is your friend? If the sex isn't satisfying to you, quit having sex with him. Tell him that you have had second thoughts about sex together and you wish to quit so it will save your friendship.
If you don't want a friendship with him tell him straight out that his "package" is to small and you get nothing out of it.
As far as orgasms...are you saying he doesn't give you one through intercourse? Show him where he can stick his tongue.
2006-09-20 03:24:21 · answer #2 · answered by Magicman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, he's just your hump buddy.... you don't have to fake orgasms for his sake... but really, while right now you don't see a problem with this situation, you should stop minimalizing sex. Save yourself for someone a little more special (and hopefully bigger) and the sex will be SO much better.
2006-09-20 03:17:35 · answer #3 · answered by rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in accordance to my ideals I shouldn't choose yet another. So i will purely say this. Claiming to be a guy of God at some point and commencing a conflict in keeping with lies the subsequent? Who would Jesus torture? you could not serve God and money, oil all people? the best trick the devil ever pulled grow to be to convince the international he did not exist. people who say they help bush faithfully via fact he's a Christian scare the hell out of me and that i'm a Christian. I easily have carried out some issues in my life i'm not pleased with yet i'd'nt commerce one millisecond of my life for bush/cheney & co. come judgement day. God bless.
2016-12-18 13:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i wouldn't tell him the truth, now that you have faked it, it would really hurt his man hood. if you want another sex friend just tell him that you met some else and want to see where it goes, but if you want him to remain as you sex friend, see how good he is with his tounge, or toys. they make all kinds to make him bigger, i use the excuss that my g spot is to far off. lol
hope this helps.
2006-09-20 03:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be honest with him. Don't make him believe that he's satisfying you when he's not. If you continue to lie, you will eventually get caught soon or later. He deserves to be told the truth, not lies.
2006-09-20 03:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by jackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have most of the basics down now.......
move on to the next level and get yourself a pimp!
if you are going to sound like one might as well make a little cash!!
2006-09-20 03:18:05 · answer #7 · answered by rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest different positions. From behind might work, because he can hit your 'g' spot better.
2006-09-20 03:17:52 · answer #8 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to try different positions and just experiment with different techniques. I would just tell him, "Let's try something different."
2006-09-20 03:16:14 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try oral sex if he can't please you 1 way maybe he can please you the other way.try not to hurt his feelings.the next guy might be big and jobless or a ho.keep what even if you need to go buy something to please yourself without him knowing.
2006-09-20 03:18:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋