We both love each other, we are very compatible, she does everything in her power to make me happy, she is very mature and very smart, not to mention pretty, but I get many tempting irresistible advances from other hot women and I prefer NOT to cheat on her, because I know she is very faithful to me and she deserves the same, but the temptations are too much, damn it
2006-09-20 03:11:45 · 22 answers · asked by Doctor L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why risk an impulse when you have your wife at home. These others will probably never be able to stand in her shoes from the way you talk of her. You get tempted cause its the thrill of getting someone else, but would you actually go thru w/it. Probably not. You would back out cause you know its morally wrong and you have enough respect for your wife that you would never want to put her thru that. Its ok to wonder or to have this fantasy but in reality, this is not you or what your heart tells you. Dont ever talk yourself into or listen to your groin area. You will hate yourself afterwards and it will eat you up inside. Go to your wife and releave yourself or masturbate to get your adrenaline back in check. Never go on impulse.
2006-09-20 03:19:07 · answer #1 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to get out of your routine, and revisit your relationship. Try new things, or take a trip together. You most likely "love" the type of person she is, and have great respect for her, but possibly lost the spark in the relationship, or the excitement. The fact that you know that looking at other women is wrong, is also feeding into the pleasure of doing it.
In the long run, looks, and body WILL go away, so would you rather have a best friend that will love you no matter what, or would you ratehr be looking for the bigger better deal?
2006-09-20 03:18:50 · answer #2 · answered by little_crabcake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, that's a tuffy.. Don't cheat on your wife. She sounds like a wonderful woman. If you cheat on her, then you could loose that relationship forever, plus have to start from square one. Women are pretty smart about that too though.. they can usually tell when you're up to something like cheating. You shouldn't cheat on her, she deserves so much more than that, and from you too. Show her that you truly love her. It may be that you tow don't have quite enough romance in your life. Get a day off of work, and tell her that you're planning a special night for her. Get her flowers and take her to a bed-n-breakfast. Show her what she means to you. This way, you will satisfy your craving for a hott night, and you will also make her feel important, loved, and closer to you...without having to cheat on her. Good luck! I hope you can figure out something!
2006-09-20 03:21:19 · answer #3 · answered by Cyber Spacer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol u r a fool
u know how many of us out there are looking for a very loving honest and caring woman and u want to throw it away over beauty
beauty is only skin man
there s more to that
dont do it
it natural to feel like that we are human but dont act upon it
dont do it
i never cheated on my x but as when i was getting attention and finding other beautiful women more appealing i made the biggest mistake by breaking up with her
and now i m single and havent found no one
dont do the same mistake i did
2006-09-20 03:26:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, you are perfectly normal. Sexual desires don't get turned off just because you said vows. You will keep them for the rest of your life.
When women approach you, just smile and tell them that while you are flattered, you are a happily married man. If they persist, walk away. Don't allow flirting or other temptations to go to the point where you want to give in. At the first sign of trouble, get yourself out of the situation. Most women respect a faithful man and won't push the subject. It's up to you to stand firm against the ones that get too forward.
2006-09-20 03:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Temptations are very normal, Don't feel bad about them. I mena your wife probably looks at a good looking guy and is like dame, from time to time. So relax and every time you think of passing the line with a cutie think of how wonderful your wife is and the wonderfully naughty things you can do with her once you go home!!! Not to mention the crazy fling may not be worth it if you get a STD or another horrid disease, the single life is dangerous!!!
2006-09-20 03:16:33 · answer #6 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you sir, no offense but prehaps the problems are A.) You are not being absoulutely honest with your wife about what you want sexually, B) You are slightly missing the mark when it comes to self evaluation. What aspects of these other women are turning you on and why have you not tried to apply these things to your wife in some way, doing so might make you more turned on to her because of the sharing and what ever the thing is that is turning you on
2006-09-20 03:15:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Temptations are all in your mind. Everyone finds people attractive, no matter what your relationship status. You can find other women attractive but you shouldn't do anything about it.
Just because you've already ordered doesn't mean you can't look at the menu. Stay faithful, you'll be much happier
2006-09-20 03:15:36 · answer #8 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are feeling that way I can tell you that a guy is always going to be a guy, and you'll always want to flirt with other women even if she is the most beautiful women on the planet, but what you might want to do is to get her to accept occasional threesome with you and other women with no string attached, because men are naturally program to want what they cannot get, so once you start getting that from her, and that you don't want to have anything with another womam without her present, then she will feel less betrayed, but on the other hand if she does not want that you're gonna have to figure out another way to keep you thing in your pants. I tried that method with my boyfriend and it worked our relationship is now based on trust and honesty.
2006-09-20 03:26:53 · answer #9 · answered by Halal Pig Ok in Islam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those feeling were written from the bottom of your heart and she is lucky to have you as a husband so there is somthing missing though maybe a kid or love making I don't know or maybe u r good looking guy thats why those girl play around u. however just don't tell her about the tempetation ok, and do whatever you want with her feel free ok ,and once you got the hot for other girl go and love your wife ..also its phase and it'll go away.. ok ...
i hope everything will be alright with u...
2006-09-20 03:23:55 · answer #10 · answered by Dark angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋