We keep bumping into each other but she does not say a thing ..not even thank you when I hold the door for her....
I kinda like her but she seems all by herself all the time ......any advice ?
2006-09-20 03:04:56 · 21 answers · asked by kydexa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Been in a similar situation a couple of times, I used to ran into this girl at the pool, at the tennis courts, at the gym, at the mall etc for many years, I just met her last month ans she's a great girl, very nice really, so go for it, you must get a pleasant surprise, talk to her!!
2006-09-20 03:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by alvarito8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's just shy. Ask her about her wokout or what she likes to order at the cafe. Something to show you are interested but not stalker like. Then continue doing this for a wekk and then at the end of the week ask her if she will join you at the cafe for a coffee or whatever then from then ask her on a date... by then you will know her a little better and will be able to decide if you even like her by the time of asking her for the date
2006-09-20 03:13:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strike up the nerve and talk to her, invite her to work out with you...thats how things get started by a simple conversation most of the time, good luck but remember I don't know how mice a chick she can be is she doesn't even say thank you when you open the door for her...
2006-09-20 03:20:48 · answer #3 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you scarry looking or do you smell? lol If NOT, then the next bumping into, start a conversation.
Let her know you have noticed she's always alone. Try asking her to join you in lunch or dinner.
Thats a good place to start to find out if she's already involved.
2006-09-20 03:11:18 · answer #4 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's meant to be for you all to bump in to each other. Maybe she's fairly new to this place and has not had a chance to make friends and is afraid due to being all alone. Ask questions, make conversation and take it from there.
2006-09-20 03:13:13 · answer #5 · answered by laigarval 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is shy! A lot of beautiful people are very shy or used to being treated badly from people who are intimated by their good looks so maybe you need to make that first move! Show her some kindness, invite her to lunch, dinner, coffee!
2006-09-20 03:13:29 · answer #6 · answered by trinitarianwiccan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be very shy. Initiate conversation first. Start with a smile and Hi.
2006-09-20 03:11:52 · answer #7 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a move. Ask her very nicly and polite if she would join you for dinner or a drink or what ever you want. The worst she can say is no.
2006-09-20 03:11:21 · answer #8 · answered by Mark S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't pursue a girl who didn't have the manners to say "thank you"
Next time your in that situation, let the door slam in her face - see if she starts speaking to you then.
2006-09-20 03:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start a conversation with her...ask her out for coffee or something simple and not terrifying. Maybe she's a loner or shy...
All you can do is shoot your shot! Good Luck!
2006-09-20 03:12:46 · answer #10 · answered by Marsha Mellow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋