I have no idea why, but I hate being in a relationship.
It's weird...because I can be great friends with a guy and we can take it to an intimate level physically, but as soon as it officially becomes a relationship...I want out.
In reality I guess things haven't really changed...but I don't know. In my mind, I think they have...and then I begin to obsess about it.
Why do I do this exactly?
I have no idea.
...but that's where I was hoping you would come in?
2006-09-20 03:04:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that it is because as long as its not a "relationship" there is no commitment, there is no need to answer for your actions, you can do what you want see who you want and answer to no one for it.
when you get into a "exclusive" relationship the other person always wants to know what you are doing, where you are going when will I see you again, etc it in effect clips your wings. when you meet the right person clipping your wings wont bother you at all as a matter of fact you wont even notice
2006-09-20 03:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by Chico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your scared plain and simple. In reality nothing should change from dating to a relationship. Even from dating to marriage. For some reason people think it should be different but it should not. Marriage is just a piece of paper that the courts recognize. It changes nothing but your taxes and in some cases your last name. You just are scared shitless of commitment. I'm betting you don't want to be tied down which is what you think a relationship is.
2006-09-20 10:16:51 · answer #2 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im guessing you just get bored easily. No need to stress about it. So long as you are upfront with whoever you are with, letting them know you are not looking ofr anything serious, its all good.
When you do find the right person, you wont feel this way.
2006-09-20 10:07:38 · answer #3 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your father was not around for you so you seek out relationships that you will sabotage diliberately so you can feel comfortable being messed up in your zone your use to. Go to a shrink or continue on.
2006-09-20 10:20:56 · answer #4 · answered by Flat Top 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am that way at times. i love my own space and i will call you when i want to be with you but dont be calling me trying to make me spend time with you. i dont like it when people envade my personal space. there could be something about you that bugs me, it might be something minor and it might turn me off from you. maybe you just arent feeling the relationship thing with that person? ive been there. my co-worker called me anti-relationship. i dont stay in relationships long at all. i might go back and forth between one relationship and its hard when you really dont like the person in that way and they keep trying to be with you. there is nothing wrong with you at all. you are human and entitled to feel the way you do. just be yourself
2006-09-20 10:13:04 · answer #5 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why you do that but I wish you all the luck in the world getting over it, I've known only one other person to suffer that
2006-09-20 10:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by Iron Rider 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nopes, I had this problem till I got married.
2006-09-20 10:07:34 · answer #7 · answered by Coolguy_punjabi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you scared of being tied down.
2006-09-20 10:07:29 · answer #8 · answered by horsecrazy07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are afraid of commitment. did something happen to you when you were younger?
2006-09-20 10:09:15 · answer #9 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with that kind of independence...
enjoy it, and enjoy the sex... :D
2006-09-20 10:10:52 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋