Is this the best way to ask a girl out. Look at my quote
"Even though we know each other for a couple of weeks, I am attracted to you and was wondering if you want to go out with me?"
Would that scare the girl? I really want to be with her. I like her personality and beauty. If she said no, does that means she is not ready to be with me yet? Should I say straight forward asking her out?
Does that make a difference if I replace "go out with me?" instead of "go to the movies with me?" and if I didn't say I'm attracted to her. What would you ask if you were me? I have known her for a couple of weeks. Is it okay to ask a girl out if you only known her for a couple of weeks? Is there like a best phrase to ask a girl out?
2006-09-20 02:58:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't tell her you're attracted to her. That's probably one of the worst things you can do, just because you run the risk of her feeling uncomfortable if she doesn't feel the same about you.
You have to say what comes naturally to you. I usually just ask a girl what they're doing this weekend and if they say "nothing" then I'll say something like "You wanna get together and do something?"
But then again that's me. You have to say what comes naturally to you. Good luck
2006-09-20 03:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think ya "quote" is good. I like the fact that you're honest and straightforward but for starters just ask her to go out for movies or dinner or something. Yes, it's ok to ask a girl you've only known for a couple of weeks. Since you sound like a nice sincere guy, I'm sure she would give you a shot...all the best mate...
2006-09-20 10:05:59 · answer #2 · answered by Dellilah Patchouly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You good with what you have. Don't suggest a movie, but if you want, you could throw "dinner" in there. Go with, "...if you'd like to go out to dinner with me." Ask to take her to dinner where it will give you a chance to talk... women like to talk. Most of the night, you'll only have to listen. Make no offers other than dinner, it shows her that you want to open the lines between you, but leaves her feeling no pressure of a long night. Plan of things to do, but don't tell her up front. Make sure they are things that she will be interested in, like a museum or play, or a game... something that she likes. You are sincere with you intensions and not trying to con her into a date. Keep your opening offer simple. It's a first date not a marriage proposal.
2006-09-20 10:15:48 · answer #3 · answered by tbayxxxv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what kind of girl it is. You sound really serious and se must be like you. Your request may scare her. Do not hurry to show her your feeling. Of course ask her to go out and start showing her very slowly youre interested in her. If she likes you, she will respond. I suggest you try and ask her going out but dont mention that you are attracted by her so soon. You can say that you like her company and you want to go out. And in another two weeks, try and tell what you feel. IF SHE IS INTERESTED IN YOU, SHE WILL RESPOND.
GOOD LUCK MY FRIEND
2006-09-20 10:06:44 · answer #4 · answered by Red Thanos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a very good way to ask someone out. Good luck and I hope she says Yes.
2006-09-20 10:02:04 · answer #5 · answered by middle aged and love it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty good amigo, but the ending is weak.
"... if you want to go out with me?"
instead of this, say where u wanna take her. "...wonder if you want to go to the movies, park, or clubbing, etc" This will have her avoid being put in the spot. Trust me take this advice....
2006-09-20 10:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was that girl and u asked me dat, i'd really think about going out w u...it's nice when a guy is honest, just don't go to far with the asking that u'l come out desperate or pushy...give her time..if u wouldn't say "I'm attracted to you"....say "i really wanna get to know you" instead .Buon Fortuna! :)
2006-09-20 10:05:24 · answer #7 · answered by Katrine Nyce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank you for the 4 points. Sounds good.
2006-09-20 10:17:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she give you the impression that she was somehow attracted to you ?if its not the case you may want to start by getting her to notice you first.
2006-09-20 10:03:07 · answer #9 · answered by liza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your approach is a good one. BE direct, show you are interested. No Time like the present.
2006-09-20 10:00:52 · answer #10 · answered by raykpcs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋