my best friend's new boyfriend can not kiss! and he's 33, so it's not like he's new at it!
he is very sloppy - any advice on how she can talk to him about it without hurting his feelings?
(and no! I'm NOT asking for me! I'm happily married and my hubby CAN kiss!!!!!)
thanks!
2006-09-20 02:48:37 · 28 answers · asked by Amy B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She should show him how to do it, everybody does and likes different things. I like when females teach me things, gives me a break from being the smart one.
2006-09-20 02:52:54 · answer #1 · answered by Sean 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always thought that a kiss can tell you alot about a person. I could not handle being with someone who can't kiss. Probably means he sucks in bed too. If she enjoys kissing, she should probably just let that one go.
2006-09-20 03:01:06 · answer #2 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not about good performance in kissing or having sex. Love is love. Relation based on love is stronger than the one based on physical intimates.
Anyway that can be taught. Everyone knows how to learn quick.
2006-09-20 02:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by AAA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been with the same guy for 2 years, and honestly, i couldnt stand the way he used to kiss me. it was very tight and not relaxed, so i manipulated the way i kissed him, so that he would have to follow what i do. and now he is the most passionate kisser EVER!! wish your friend good luck!!
2006-09-20 02:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should just come out and tell him what she doesn't like about his kisses. If your friend is so good at it herself, she could tell him she wants to teach him a thing or 2
2006-09-20 02:52:01 · answer #5 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys and girls, for that matter, just aren't good kissers. There probablt is no way to tell him without hurting his feelings. It would be a crushing blow to his ego and male ego's are very fragile.
2006-09-20 02:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has to take control. She may have to literally put her hands on his head and control him awhile. Once he gets the idea, he'll be happy. Men are like puppies - they need to be trained. I had an outstanding kissing teacher; I still get rave reviews.
2006-09-20 02:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by Tad Dubious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she's just going to have to have it out with him, there is no real nice way to deal with it, but for the benefit of woman-kind she needs to take the bull by the horns and tell him that she doesn't like the way he kisses, that he needs to swallow his spit before he drowns her. If she doesn't well then she's going to have to put up with it....
2006-09-20 02:51:51 · answer #8 · answered by stepfordswiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know one persons definition of sloppy is different than somebody elses.
2006-09-20 02:52:13 · answer #9 · answered by nbr660 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may be 33 but that don't mean he's an old hand at snogging!Try saying I can't kiss and drink at the same time.Maybe he'll understand!
2006-09-20 02:54:25 · answer #10 · answered by HIGHWAYSTAR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋