This may seem super silly- and NO- I am not a shallow person! But i recently joined the gym and have a persoanl training session once a week. All good and fine until I actually have to spend a hour with this dude!
Can you still trust and believe in someone who can't look at you straight?
Also- anyone have any ideas on what may have caused this? Thinking it's a little more aggressive than just a lazy eye!
On top of that- he has a cold- and is spluttering all over me. I'm smiling BUT this is not how i envisioned my first few weeks of belonging to a gym!
2006-09-20 02:47:33 · 8 answers · asked by Claire M 2 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
OK, grow up. I was cross eyed as a child and had to have years of vision therapy to uncross my eyes. It is not that he doesn't want to look at you straight - he is physically incapable of doing so due to a medical condition. This has nothing to do with how trustworthy he is.
And ambliopia is the condition I had. It is way worse than lazy eye. Give him a break. I am sure living like that is really hard for him. It was hard for me as a kid, and I only got over it after my parents got me tons of treatment, which worked only because I was so young. This poor man probably was not diagnosed in time to get treatment.
He will get over his cold, but you need to get over his cross-eyedness. Please judge him for who he is, not how he looks.
2006-09-20 02:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by Leah 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hmmm... yes you're shallow. You should just admit that now and start being honest with yourself before you lose yourself completely in your imaginary world of perfect people where only yourself really exists.
Secondly, I'm sure you can see if he is physically in shape, between staring at his crossed eyes. Just because he has a cold doesn't mean he is physcially unfit. If he is spluttering perhaps he should not be working with people who are trying to get healthy. But that's just unfortunate for you.
Get over it hun. We all 'imagine' ideal things in life, the problem is that life is never ideal, the rest of us just get on with it.
2006-09-20 03:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by quay_grl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HAHAHA this is hillarious. if it's only the lazy eyes i think it's OK. they can still see well. but the flu is just wrong! ask your gym rep to change to another trainer but don't be a ***** about it, just tell them you're not comfortable training with a sick person
2006-09-20 02:59:33 · answer #3 · answered by catkittykitten 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1
2016-06-20 01:14:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no reason why you can't trust him, and everyone gets colds. Give him a chance, he wouldnt have a job if he wasnt any good at it. your obviously going to the gym and having personal training sessions because you need to or want to, so enjoy them.
have fun :)
2006-09-20 02:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by trandru 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Can you trust him? What is wrong with you? How is it that you're not shallow? Be a human being, not an idiot.
2006-09-20 02:55:30 · answer #6 · answered by CarlaCCC 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should call security really and have him removed no you can't trust him!
he should not be there with a cold really!
he is nasty & funny looking girl- run
2006-09-20 03:01:39 · answer #7 · answered by wise 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're shallower than a piss stain.
2006-09-20 02:50:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋