I have liked this guy for 3 years. We dated for 4 months and I got pregnant, and we broke up. He just recently started acting like he wanted me back so we started back dating. We had sex sunday and ever since he has been acting like he doesn't want to have anything to do with me. I called him, and he got mad because it wasn't the right time. I text him, and he lets everybody text him but he got mad about me texting him to. So I asked him when he was going to call me back, and he said that he didn't know and that I was getting his nerves asking him that. What should I do please help me I really love this guy.
2006-09-20 02:47:04 · 20 answers · asked by Sarah Beth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As hard as it may be, move on. He isn't into you or is completely rude and doesn't deserve you. Either way, be good to yourself and find someone who will also be good to you.
2006-09-20 02:50:18 · answer #1 · answered by slwilson1966 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, if you cant see whats going on here you have a long hurtful road ahead of you. He is using you for one thing and one thing only. You are nothing more then a doormat for him. Why in the world would you even give him the time of day when he ran like alittle immature boy when you were pregnant. How could you even allow your heart to him. There is so much better out there that would appreciate you. He is also probably doing this to several girls and you are setting yourself up for something horrible. Its not worth it.
2006-09-20 02:52:20 · answer #2 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he got what he was after. Try spending time with him without the sex and see how long he stays around. I bet he won't even show. He isn't worth the time you have put into worrying about him. Find someone who will appreciate you and not use you.
2006-09-20 02:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by country girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a jerk and you deserve better. did you break up because of the baby? i wouldnt try contacting him. ive been there so i know what im talking about. its going to take to much energy for you to get him to be around. he wont respect you, sounds like he doesnt. hes dogging you out, he knows he can get some from you now that you have given in. hes acting like he dont want to be bothered and with that alone i wouldnt bother him anymore. i know its hard and you have feelings for him and all but you will feel better later down the road.
2006-09-20 02:56:37 · answer #4 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Likeing doesnt mean that, if u llike or love a guy u should have sex with that guy before thinking of future. if u already have sex with that guy without thinking then why u cry now. Its ur future go for it what is right for u?
2006-09-20 02:54:53 · answer #5 · answered by jinny j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him, he sounds like a jerk and you deserve better. Don't let a baby influence who you think you should be with...as long as you're a loving mother, that's all that matters. Hold out until the right person comes along who wants to be with you, consistently, and who wants to be with your child.
2006-09-20 02:51:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's just used you for sex that day. You need to move on. Perhaps go to therapy where you can figure out why you "really love" a guy who treats you this way.
2006-09-20 02:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you love anyone that treats you like trash? It's obvious he's taking advantage of you and using you for his own greedy needs.
You need to have some self respect and get as far away from that loser as possible.
2006-09-20 02:49:38 · answer #8 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wanted a piece of a ss for old times sake.. He's a loser and you are so better off without him.. All that matters right now is you and the baby..
2006-09-20 02:49:51 · answer #9 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just by asking this questin you make it glaringly obvious that you have major self esteem issues. If you didn't you'd know to not even think about someone who treats you like ****.
2006-09-20 02:51:13 · answer #10 · answered by Seeker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋