I have known her for about 6 months. We are just friends but I want to be alot more than that. I was going to send her some pink roses with a message but I don't know what to write. I have thought about asking her but I get really nervous and decide not to do it? She is stopping over at my flat this Saturday, should I say something then or carry on and send her flowers with a message. Does anyone have a good message that I could put on some flowers? Thanks for the Help. Ken
2006-09-20 02:39:40 · 20 answers · asked by ken030782@btinternet.com 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have been out quite a few times to the cinema, playing pool, gone to Blackpool and things like that. She is the one who asked about stopping over at mine but she said just as friends, that is why I am nervous about asking her.
2006-09-20 03:11:26 · update #1
Just tell her!!! Putting it all out there for love is a bold & daring move & if you don't take the risk you'll be left wondering for the rest of your life!!!!
2006-09-20 02:45:41 · answer #1 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You only live once and if she is that great I'm sure there are other guys plotting so you better get moving. I would defiantly buy the flowers and when she comes over, keep them in the refridgerator ask her if she would mind getting "something" out of the fridge for you then she will see. I don't even think you will have to write anything because I think the flowers say it all.
2006-09-20 02:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by dabuttsfly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Send flowers with a message like "from someone who thinks of you often" to get her guessing. I'm sure she'd mention it to you, that way you'd know how she felt about it and you could make your move from there.
Always a little awkward trying to take a friendship to the next level but you'll never know unless you try.
Hope it works out for ya Ken!
2006-09-20 02:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My answer is definitely 1 you won't want to hear, but you need to... I speak from experience on this & there is 1 thing you have to keep in the back of your mind when it comes to this situation.
Depending on how good of friends you really are, doesn't matter, unless the feeling is mutual, you have to be prepared for the possibility of ruining a friendship as well - it's a 50-50 shot - because if the feeling isn't mutual, she will always know in the back of her mind how you truly feel about her when hanging out & she might still want to hang out with you, but only in a group situation. And then, you meet someone else within that group..
Sorry - but I do hope things work out for you!
2006-09-20 02:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your balls on the chopping block and tell her. Not as soon as she walks thru the door. But maybe when she is getting ready to leave ask if you can have a word, then tell her. That way if she feels differently it wont be too awkward because she was leaving anyway. If she feels the same she might stay a bit longer. My guess is she will stay. Good luck fella
2006-09-20 04:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by Mick B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Ken,
Girls can get scared away just as easily as men. I know you want to reveal your love for her but I would wait on it. It's much more romantic to woo her and create a loving relationship before spilling the beans. When you do tell her you can let her in on your secret of how long you have loved her. If you say it now she may get scared off or feel pressured. That could end in doom. Good luck to you and God bless! It's nice to know romantics still exist.
Sophi
2006-09-20 02:51:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
aw how sweet.....tell her in way that's not going to scare he off....just tell her that in the time that you have known each other you have become very fond of her and your feelings are different than having a friend...be gentle when you break this to her, sending flowers is nice...but cook her a nice meal sit at the table with her and slowly let it out, i am sure she will be fine about it, don't be too disappointed if she turns you down, at least you can both stay friends...but at least she will know how you feel...you seem like a really nice person, so bite the bullet and tell her otherwise it will drive you nuts
2006-09-20 02:49:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend,
I was in a similar situation last year and foud courage to tell a my best friend that I had feelings for him. I felt ahat That was the best decision for us. WE stayed friends but It was a relief for me to tell somebody that I like. I was satisfied from only telling him that although we've never be sth more than friends.
A card and roses are a good idea, but you'd better have a conversation. Or maybe, you can first senad a card, and in teh same day tell openly your feelings. BElieve me, words can do more...and a tender look in her eyes.
Good luck
2006-09-20 02:45:30 · answer #8 · answered by Orchid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ur a strong guy have some guts and propose her may be luck on ur side and she says yes! and if she says no then just be good friends.
or the other method is wait for some time and try making good impression on her .
showing ur love and care ;by making her happy and just buy some small gifts for her sometimes and i bet she will automatically know that u r in love with her and she will then surely think of proposing u before u propose her.
try it
Al lThe Best.
2006-09-20 02:46:08 · answer #9 · answered by nivi rocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a hard call because i dont know how she feels about you! I would suggest perhaps you could send flowers and say on the note. I dont know how to say how i feel, If you want to know, Come over saturday as planned .. that way, if she dont show, u know lol. no embaressment! If she does. then she must be interested in you somwhat?
2006-09-20 02:42:44 · answer #10 · answered by Simmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am doing the same thing this saturday but am going to do it when she gets home when shes getitng out of the car am just going to say it so she has another week for it to soke in and it aint awkward man am good
2006-09-20 02:41:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋