2006-09-20 02:36:57 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it depends on u. but if u want to have sex with the person u r going to marry and u love to do it then u can do. but if u r thinking of sex with other person don't do it.
2006-09-20 02:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are pros and cons. Most of the pros really don't need consideration. In fact, the only significant pro I can think of is that it is fun.
The con's turn. It is wrong. It tends to be dangerous regarding health and pregnancy risk. It undermines the relationship. It takes away from part of the getting to know each other stage of marriage. Skipping that stage leads to no real honey moon. Though I don't know the details, there is a statistical relationship between pre-marital sex and divorce. There is also a relationship between co-habitation and divorce. I am not into math enough to understand it, but whatever it is is there.
It is just better to take your time in a relationship that is supposed to last a lifetime. Take your time courting. Take your time after marriage. Really take time to enjoy each other. Don't rush things. Make the effort to learn as well. Like any skill, sex in marriage has to be learned and practiced and learned again and practiced again.
2006-09-20 15:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by Jack 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for sure it is,,,back in the days i would of said naw wait until marriage like my parents use 2 tell me,,,but now days since i have had alot of sex and i experience different kind and different size and people that know how 2 work it and people that don't know what they r doin,,,if u r a person that love sex it matters believe me,,if u wait till marriage and have sex what if it not satisfying u then what,,,and when u have those friends telling u about that good pipe they had got put down on them,,and here u go thinkin about this little pipe u have,,,lol,,,,next thing u know maybe not then,, but eventually u will want to find out about what ur friends be talkin about
2006-09-20 02:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetpea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. Do our ancestors have a wedding or a celebration called marriage in those few decades ago? No right?
In modern world, we accept the wedding or marriage as a union of a man and a woman. This is just a social relation for public. It's a decleration only. The real truth is the intimate between you and your partner.
So. Once you have sex, you are in marriage.
2006-09-20 02:46:13 · answer #4 · answered by AAA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to the bible sex before marriage is a sin. I think that it is a load of crap simply because marriage is a man mad thing. As long as you think that God has blessed the union that you have with this individual, that is the most important thing.
However we do not want to be promiscuious. But at the end of the day ti is all up to you what decision you make. Not to mention your hormones will cause you to drive of a cliff eventually so .......
Hope this answer helped.
2006-09-20 02:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no right or wrong answer here. Its a choice if your going to feel dirty,sinful,slutty etc over it then no. On the other hand if your OK with it and do not see it as a sin then yes by all means no harm done. Many with strong religious beliefs feel it morally wrong yet most of the world see it has normal for a couple to have sexual relations before marriage. We can argue till doomsday the final decision is yours and what you and your partner are OK with.
2006-09-20 02:41:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Premarital sex is a personal decision. No one can help you make that decision. Only you know if you are ready. It is a decision to be made by a person who is mature enough to know their own desires and not one to made lightly! An intimate relationship is not something you can change so you need to be absolutely positive you are ready for that type of relationship and do not have sex simply out of curiousity! If you feel you may regret it one day then you probably will!
2006-09-20 02:45:07 · answer #7 · answered by trinitarianwiccan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm an old folk and I say yes.
As long as you are not being pressured into it.
None of that "Sleep with me or I'll find someone who will" garbage please. For that matter don't even bother with someone like that, let alone think of marriage.
I think a perfectly good rule is Don't Sleep with Someone You Wouldn't Marry. This goes for guys as well as girls. That way you won't be on Maury one day telling the world that you can't be her baby daddy cause shes a ho. And she must be cause shes back for the eleventh time for a DNA test.
Needless to say... if you are a girl....you don't want to be that ho either.
But a sexual relationship with consentual, of age partners...thats fine.
2006-09-20 02:49:00 · answer #8 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.
Hebrews 13: 4
It is God's will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the heathen, who do not know God; and that in this matter no one should wrong his brother or take advantage of him. The Lord will punish men for all such sins, as we have already told you and warned you. For God did not call us to be impure, but to live a holy life. Therefore, he who rejects this instruction does not reject man but God, who gives you his Holy Spirit.
1 thessalonians 4: 3-8
2006-09-20 02:42:45 · answer #9 · answered by Dead 2 Self 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally i am having sex before marrige but i wish i had never had it. Its fun and feels good dont get me wrong. But these days there are WAY to many risks that come along with it and I dont think people these days are ready to have it. I think it is better to wait until you find someone you love and have pledged your life to to have sex. However its all personal opinion
2006-09-20 02:42:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! Because you have no idea if that person that you are giving your body to is always gonna be there. And you will end up spending the rest of your life regreting it. Because when it is time for you to get married you are gonna wish that you saved yourself for that special someone. Just don't do anything that you know or you think you know that you will regret in the future. BEST OF LUCK!! I know that you will take my message into consideration.
2006-09-20 02:49:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋