i am with him nearly a year but i do not know wear to move in with him or not you live ony about 3 miles from me but we do want to move to tegether but i do not know about that can yous help me please
2006-09-20 02:06:56 · 38 answers · asked by blonde13321@yahoo.ie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If its what you want then go for it.
2006-09-20 02:20:02 · answer #1 · answered by Dave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think age should matter but how you feel about it - and if you are thinking you are too young and arent sure then the answer should be - no dont move in - at least just not yet. There is no hurry and if i could go back to being 19(29 now) i would have saved a heap more money before moving out.
Think about it long and hard - its your decision at the end of the day but there is no hurry and dont let anyone make up your mind for you.
Good luck and I hope it all works out for you.
2006-09-20 02:09:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say, but the answer is yes. You are young. Like I tell my daughters...When you are kids, enjoy being a kid, When you are teens, enjoy being a teen, and When you finally become an adult, be an adult. After that, being an adult is all you'll have. People rush their lives way too fast and always try to grow up sooner than need be. Moving in with someone only makes you grow up that much faster and makes your responsibilities that much more. You have the rest of your life to start playing "Wife", try being YOU for awhile, you have your whole life ahead. I'm not saying, break up with him, I'm just saying, take time, get a good education, and be you for awhile, and then when the time is right, be an adult." One more thing, "Marriage should come first" Be patient, and God Bless."
2006-09-20 02:28:17 · answer #3 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not too young but the relationship is still fairly new. Being with someone nearly a year is not enough time for you to consider living with them. Things aren't going to be all peaches & creams it changes everything when people rush into the whole matter of living together. At least give it a good 2yrs. your still young so just enjoy life cause living with a guy isn't what it's all cracked up too be. Good Luck with whatever you decide.
2006-09-20 02:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you want to hear is go ahead, you are an adult, go for it. I would like to say that you need to go out there and get it little more life experience before getting in that deep so young. I know, I did it. Five years later, I am a divorced single mother just getting by. Always remember, that you still have a lot of time left, use it to your advantage. Date, travel, go to college, experiment, live alone, go out with the girls. Don't settle your life so early!
2006-09-20 03:24:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be sure that this is the right thing...if you have your own place then i suggest that you keep it just in-case you both fall out, living with someone is great at first but when you start getting to know their habits, sometimes it becomes annoying....better still move some stuff into his place, like toothbrush, undies and a few clothes, stay with him for a couple of nights a week until you get used to living with him, there will be clashes of personality from time to time, but if you feel that your ready, then go for it...good luck....19 is about the right age to be leaving home anyways, i left at 16, but i was working away,
2006-09-20 02:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there
If you have any doubts then no, dont do it.
I was 19 when I got engaged and started living with my husband. I'm now 25 and so far it's been the best thing that's happened to me. but I knew without doubt it was the right thing.
Most people at 19 either arent ready or don't want to settle so seriously with one person yet.
Just enjoy the relationship and have fun!
2006-09-20 02:11:03 · answer #7 · answered by DemonicaB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't move in with him, you're too young. If things go wrong, you'll have to leave and be out of a home. Go ahead and date him but moving in is not a good option unless you both are considering marriage later on.
2006-09-20 02:20:12 · answer #8 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel comfortable that your relationship can last living together, then go for it! I moved in with my boyfriend when I was 19.... 3 years later we are still happy as larry! You need to do these things to gain life experience... it's better to have tried and failed not to have tried at all!
2006-09-20 10:30:28 · answer #9 · answered by Kirk_84 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
19 isn't too young. I'm 18 and live with my boyfriend (Well, I'll be 19 in a month).
Why not do it?
If you really love each other, then look at it as taking the next step.
If you just want to move out of your house, then look at it as being young and living your life and learning from an experience.
2006-09-20 02:10:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you want to move in together then go ahead but make sure you dont end up doing all the chores, you might not mind at first but you might get taken for granted, speaking from experience girl, start as you mean to go on.
2006-09-20 02:12:14 · answer #11 · answered by chickadee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋