thing is, there's this guy at school......we all know that he likes me(me & my friends) and he is so hot but my friend has had a crush on him since day one.he flirts with me should i also flirt and hurt my friend who is by the way always so jelouse of me?
2006-09-20 01:14:35 · 17 answers · asked by zeee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Awwww hell no,,,friend or not,,,everyone out for themselves in the game of love hunny,,,if you pass this one over to your friend who is jelouse of you anyway,,you may lose out on something that could be good for you and there for hun you will regret it and hurt your friendship with her worse in the end.
Think about it ,,,,,then i say go for it.
2006-09-20 01:19:21 · answer #1 · answered by ladydi_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just find someone, I don't think it's worth losing a friend over a guy that probably is just playing around....I mean I'm not saying he is, just giving you an example......But in the other hand your friend shouldn't be jealous of you, instead she should be happy for you, for having whatever is that you have and she wants.....If she's a really good friend, she was probably with you all the time in good times and bad times, right? If she's only there for good times, then I say she's not your friend.....and if that is the case then forget her and try to get this guy, since he already flirts with you, you might not have such a hard time getting him........Good Luck, and ask yourself if it's worth losing a "friend" over a guy, but like I said also ask yourself if your friend is a true friend......I don't think there should be jealousy between friends!!! Good Luck
2006-09-20 08:24:33 · answer #2 · answered by hey_amt95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would happen either way, if you did flirt with him?... He would like you, and become your boyfriend, or not like you, and become someone else's boyfriend. Plus, there's no saying he would choose your friend, whether or not you were in the picture.
However, what you should do, for the sake of the friendship, is to let him know that she is interested in him. If he says he's not interested in her, or that he's more interested in you, then he is fair game. Besides, what if he dates her, and they break up; then you'll not be able to date him because he's your friends ex.
2006-09-20 08:27:58 · answer #3 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt with him....and piss your friend off. She is jealous which is a problem. Jealous people want to hurt you and just push them out your way and get on with things. Remember this: you will NEVER be friends with someone who is jealous with you. I have learned this the hard way. Now days I don't worry about them and enjoy life.
2006-09-20 08:19:23 · answer #4 · answered by UN1C0RN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one thing you didn't mention is do YOU like the guy! Are you telling me that just because a guy likes you....you should flirt with him? If you dont like him, and it sounds like you just think he is hot...why the hell would you flirt with him knowing your friend likes him. You KIDS kill me. Get a damn grip and go do homework or something.
2006-09-20 08:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl dont be like that. that your friend. that true guys come and go. but friends are alway there. so put your self in her shoes would you like that? there alot of guys out there. that go for both of you guys. dont let this guy ruin your friendship. how do you know he not flirting with her? so think about it. before you do something you will regart ok. good luck
2006-09-20 08:20:37 · answer #6 · answered by Melda R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what feels right. Do you really want to throw away a good friendship over some guy you probably won't even remember about around this time next year?
2006-09-20 08:18:02 · answer #7 · answered by Mickie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh girl don't let something hurt your inner feelings, a friend is better than a lover you know!! but if you are sure the guy has not entered into a love affair with your friend go a head and hook up but don'd do it to hurt your friend though she may be jelous
2006-09-20 08:17:52 · answer #8 · answered by tinka bob 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
boyfriends come and go throughout your life, but losing a friend is NEVER WORTH IT! Don't learn this the hard way. There will be other guys to date, but no one as special as your friends.
2006-09-20 08:16:50 · answer #9 · answered by KB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend to make her move. Tell her you'll give her a few days, but if she's not going to step up, you will. If she does go for the guy, give her time, but if she gives up, tell her you see her giving up, and then you are free to move in.
2006-09-20 08:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋