Ok here's the shortest way of putting it:
We meet & fall in love, whe share the most intimate love imaginable, Her father tells her to break up with me because of her religion, we are both devestated, we break up, we swear to love each other even though we will never see each other again, I miss her & love her for 2 years thinking she still feels the same, today I phone her & she tells me that I must never call again & there is no place for me because she has 'a life'.
ok so firstly, wtf does she mean she has a life? does she imply that i dont? I have done more & experienced more than she will ever experience in her lifetime.
I am glad that she told me never to call cos now I know the truth about her feelings & I can forget about her instead of always wonder what it would be like if we were together.
I sent her a text directly after the call & I told her that I am sorry that I met her & that she is a horrible person.
Where do you think things will go from here?
2006-09-20 01:10:12 · 16 answers · asked by Claude 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Where CAN they go from here?
Dood. it's done. You even added extra nails in the coffin for good measure.
Find someone who's not so controlled. The sea is teeming with fish.
2006-09-20 01:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by kagetatewaki 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are really sore aren't you, that she did not have you in mind although you have not forgotten her for 2 years? What a let down! And now you're so angry that you had to tell her off! I think the sms was uncalled for!
Let go and do not bear any grudges. You should be pleased that you can now close that chapter of your life and start afresh, without the hangup. Let this be a lesson for you to learn and avoid similar behaviour in the future!
2006-09-20 08:27:48 · answer #2 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your situation sounds almost Shakespearian, as in Romeo and Juliet. They killed themselves.
Your answer in this case is not an easy one my friend, the matters of the heart run deep. But yes you will move on and you not even consider for a moment that you are not good enough. Those demons will try to come and will try to cause you to feel as though you were unacceptable and rejected when in reality it is her misfortune that has her in bondage unable to experience love and friendship she truly desires with you. She has a steel grip holding her and she is allowing to control her life. As you are able,,,, move on slowly and keep her in your prayers, but dont condem her okay. God`s Speed to you.
Jim
2006-09-20 08:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things are over between you both, she now has found a new love and is moving forward. You should start moving forward yourself. And don't you think the text was a little childless? Let it all go and start living again.
2006-09-20 08:24:02 · answer #4 · answered by loser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,you need to accept the fact that she has moved on with life n you need to do the same.remember one thing that you cannot force someone to love you or be with you,so just look ahead,theres much more in life other than her....m sure you'll find someone better soon who would love n respect you the way you do!!good luck!!
2006-09-20 08:16:17 · answer #5 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wake up and smell the coffee ..
I hope you use this as a learning experience , learn to love yourself , the person who will never let you down , put some armor on that heart of yours , don't give your heart to just any one , make them earn it , prove it , move on and be careful , just be friends with the next girl and the next , until you meet Mrs. right ..friends first - friends forever-love later....
2006-09-20 08:34:34 · answer #6 · answered by inacents 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on after apologizing to her for the msg you sent. It seems mean-spirited, given the circumstances.
2006-09-20 08:15:46 · answer #7 · answered by ElOsoBravo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question. Yes be happy because now you can move on and find someone new.
2006-09-20 08:13:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her and find another.....
If you continue to mess with her it will just make your life worse and lead to restraining orders and stalking charges.
2006-09-20 08:13:10 · answer #9 · answered by Judy the Wench 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, she said not to call because of her life... perhaps her dad is there? you think? and she isnt free to talk to you... you ended whatever relationship you Might have had by texting her... i hope you can live without her...
2006-09-20 08:13:24 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋