What are the main reasons for a girl to get nervous around a guy?? Is it a sign of insecurity?? Is there any techniques for making a girl feel more comfortable in general??
2006-09-20 01:03:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We get nervous because there maybe an interest in you, and we are not really sure on how to act to that interest, and with us not knowing how to act that then brings the thought of rejection in the back of our mind even if you are the one that approached us. We feel we might do or say something that might make you wish you never approached us. It's not an insecurity it's just something mentally we as women put ourselves through. It's kinda like when you start a new job and you don't know anyone. You don't know who is going to want to talk to you who may or may not try to help you or who may or may not like you even though they have not even taken the chance to get to know you, and on top of that you don't know if your actions will play a part in how any of that goes down. So that's kinda what us as women feel when we meet a guy we have an interest in.
The way to help us with that is to talk about anything but the interest we have. Approach her the same way you would approach someone who was just hired at your job but now has to make friends. Make small talk and that way you can get her to open up and get a feel for her, that would in return open the door for deeper conversations over time, and when I say time I don't mean months I mean over a couple of days or a week or two. Good luck.
2006-09-20 01:34:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only presence of anohter gal make them nerveous, with the fear of distracted attention ;-) Otherwise gals are not nervous among guys. However if u are talking about a strange gal in a new place surrounded with guys, not only gals even guys feel nervous. Only reason for that is insecurity.
2006-09-20 08:09:28 · answer #2 · answered by jerry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I used to get nervous around men when I was attracted to them. To make it easier for her I guess I would say be as easy going as possible start simple conversations (like asking about things she likes, movies, sports, tv shows ect.) tell jokes or play around with her to make her laugh. That should ease her insecurities a little anyway. I got the courage to talk to my husband when he snapped me with a rubber band and I snapped him back. Sounds stupid I know, but it was the icebreaker I needed to not feel so shy around him.
2006-09-20 08:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a girl but got an answer to your question... If you feel comfortable with them, relaxed, not trying to impress them what a good man you are and how big your dick is then they won't be nervous around you.. remember, just a friendly chat, nothing more! and if she likes you she'll let it know
2006-09-20 08:09:21 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Owl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its natural for a girl to e nervous around a guy. especially if she likes him. Just try asking her questions about herself, maybe she will start feeling more comfortable around you.
2006-09-20 08:07:42 · answer #5 · answered by sabrina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer that u are looking for is within you coz its abt ur self esteem ,confidence and self worth and once u deal with those and put it in you that u can conquer anything ther will not be trouble just getting a guy to like u
good luck
2006-09-20 08:17:28 · answer #6 · answered by titties 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal.it isn't a sign of insecurity.there r no techniques - just b urself!
take care
ali shkodrova
2006-09-20 08:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's an act to make you feel more manly.
2006-09-20 08:06:48 · answer #8 · answered by MonsterMash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not insecurity I'd say it's inexperience.
just don't try too hard to please him. be yourself. relax. remember, if he doesn't like you for who you are then too bad for him because you are a wonderful person.
2006-09-20 08:17:45 · answer #9 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
natural
2006-09-20 08:05:28 · answer #10 · answered by Lucy Lu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋