there is this young man who proposed to me he is 20 years older than me but i like him i like the way he talk,walk,wear he is handsome too, every thing i like him but not sure i love him but do like him a lot am happy when i think about him too should i accept although my family disagree with me???
2006-09-20 00:59:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how bout when hes sixty and sitting in a rocking chair and your only forty. Or worse yet if he passes at seventy you'll be a fifty year old widow tryin to start over.
2006-09-20 01:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by setter505 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you're not sure if you love him so don't accept his proposal yet. If you like him so much then get to know him better and then maybe you can decide if you love him and if you want to marry him.
2006-09-20 01:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by Rachie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not sure you love him then no don't get married or at least untill you figure out that you're in love with him.
As far as the age it shouldn't matter as long as the both of you are of age (over the age of 18).
2006-09-20 01:03:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your family going to marry this guy or you. Happy is happy , if thats the way you feel than why keep yourself from that.
2006-09-20 01:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by chris g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think that you should accept, but not becuase of the age or family reasons but because you stated that you arent sure if you love him.
2006-09-20 01:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya ok...
now u marry him...
then when he is older... all your love will convert to hate...
then u divorce him... ok..
Then u will find another young man... & u willl be unsure that you should marry him or not...
Huh!!!
U typical people never get hold of ur life & ur life partners....
Atleast Muslims marry onec & mostly they keep their marriage all the life...
Even in case of polygamy, they don't do fraud....
They keep their promise...
2006-09-20 01:07:37 · answer #6 · answered by just curious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is young and yet 20 yrs older than u, then u sound underage!!...i guess its too early for u to get into or think about anything serious in relationship..so chill have funa and dont get emotionally involved yet.
2006-09-21 18:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by big b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should think about what you want. Don't think about what your family wants or what this guy wants...just think about what YOU want. If its to marry this guy, then yes you should. If your not ready for marrige, then say no. If he loves you enough, he will understand your decision....no matter what it is.
2006-09-20 01:03:39 · answer #8 · answered by sabrina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you get happy inside when you think/talk about him or are happy inside when you're with him then accept... he loves you and if you like him then you'll learn to love him.....
2006-09-20 01:07:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what makes you happy love.
2006-09-20 01:01:27 · answer #10 · answered by Nyla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋