by brother has fallen in love with this girl and all he does is talk about her and unfortunately she likes him too i want him to play cricket hang out with him but he says that has passed the stage where he was a careless boy but now he's got 'responsiblities' help how can i ge my cool bro back ?
2006-09-20 00:47:54 · 13 answers · asked by Vampire 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her to shut her assssssss and find another niggga to love .
2006-09-20 01:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There comes a time when one falls in love, and they realize it's time to "grow up". You're cool bro will always be your cool bro no matter what. I can say that I have 3 brothers, all have fallen in love, all have moved on, but they are always going to be my brothers. And that girl, or any girl is not going to take that away from you. You will have that one day too.
2006-09-20 00:52:22 · answer #2 · answered by Mother of One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend,
SItuations happen like this to all siblings, including me. You will understand this when you reach your bro's age. Give him some space for the moment and he will come allright ok? So don t think that your bro is a gonner or anything, just hold on. He will change back, meanwhile you should try growing too.
2006-09-20 00:51:52 · answer #3 · answered by kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww,thats really sad,i know the feeling hun...but u know what?at first girls can really take a guys full attention away from everything else in life,it's sad but somtimes guys even lose friendships jus because of this girl,well they regret it later...the best and only thing u can really do right now is try to understand how he is feeling,when u meet a significant other u feel excited bcuz this is somone u really like and are intrested in,and u lose intrest in everything else,including hangin w/ur bros and playin games,all of a sudden u want to grow up and be serious about life....jus like some people said he will always b ur cool bro,and once all this first love stuff gets old like in 3 months ur bro'll come back to u and want ur friendship more then ever,he'll need somone to turn to when he has problems with her,even if he jus wants to talk about it every relationships has problems,and u have to make him feel like u will b the one there to listen,stick by him in spirit even if he won't hang w/u,try to forgive him for this little offense and everyonce n awhile ask if u n him can jus go play golf or jus hang out somtime cuz u miss him...he should understand.
n yea thats what happens when u meet somone u think about em all the time n talk about em,well thats somthin ur gonna have to live with bcuz once people start falling in love w/people,they DO think about them and they WILL talk about them,u jus have to suffer through that part hun.If u want the friendship w/ur bro u have to be there for him too and listen to his blabbing about her...even if it is boring.n after hes done then go do somthin fun.Also,if u really love your brother,be happy for him that he has somone in his life making things more intresting and fun and happy! be happy,bcuz someday u'll fall in love too and everyone will b like.........y is he sso caught up in her.....lol and u will feel the same way,ya jus gotta try to understand e/others position a little more and adjust,hope this helped=)
2006-09-20 01:11:43 · answer #4 · answered by greenismylife.songismyworld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give it maybe at the most a couple months, he will get over the initial love blindness and remember that there were other people in his life before she came along...and he will come crawling back to you.
2006-09-20 00:51:29 · answer #5 · answered by Sexy_Bunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to break the relationship of these love birds without letting him knowing that u did it.
2006-09-20 00:50:48 · answer #6 · answered by just curious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old is your brother..
i'm sure he'll come back around after the newness of this girl wheres off :)
2006-09-20 00:49:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry bro, he be back, he just still have the effects from the love bug.
2006-09-20 01:00:59 · answer #8 · answered by zeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him get use to the new feelings that he is feeling it will pass.
2006-09-20 00:53:35 · answer #9 · answered by pam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're brother has fallen into the woman's trap. there's no gettign him back b/c he has fallen in love w/ the sweet vagina.
2006-09-20 00:51:28 · answer #10 · answered by joe_smo_red 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋