I met this guy from work. he asked me to call him for a drink.. that same night we were txting till 8am and I met him for a kiss and a cuddle..We both didnt want to get into a relationship nor get involved physically but just someone to chill with. On sat he called to asked me to come over to his place I knew his friends and we both had a really nice chat. Things got a bit heated but we didnt go all the way. His friend walked in on us and then I left.. I didnt received any calls from him then I found out his house got burgled. I gave him a quick call to see if he was ok and he said well go out sometime. Never heard from him.We went to another work do and I seen him there. He came over to me and said thank u for calling him with regards to his burglary but the reason he hasnt called is that he has a new girlfriend. No problem I had moved on. Everytime I see him at work all he does is put his head down and carry on walking and ignores me. I dnt wana get involved but just find it so rude
2006-09-20 00:42:28 · 16 answers · asked by minx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are dumped, and you don't realise it yet.
2006-09-20 01:01:09 · answer #1 · answered by Roger B 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey girl, i am in the same boat, he said i meant the world to him, but guess what, he doesn't even talk to me, when i try to talk to him he gets really nasty, he doesn't even acknowledge me, and yes it does hurt, it really hurts, and not only that we were very close work colleagues, as soon as a new lady started in HR Dept he is all over her, but they say they are only friends, but anyway that hurts cause he used to be like that with me, i am still hurting, he doesn't want to hear anything i have to say, this time last year we were very close, i was affected very badly, but did he care no he didn't, my advice to you is it will take some time to get over him, but to tell you the truth move on, if he has someone no matter what you say he will not be able to hear you, it seems he is embarrassed, i don't envy you, be strong, carry on talking to people as normal, show him it is not affecting you, i know it is not easy, sometimes you feel like giving up your job and go somewhere else, but at the end of the day you have not done anything wrong, he is simply a coward. good luck,
2006-09-20 09:17:09 · answer #2 · answered by Ruksana P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never mind , these types of speed breakers comes in our way , here you know what happened ? though he introduced to his friends , but never expected from you to be too close with others in his presence & expected you to be their with him that day . And that must be the one of the reason . Now you must take care of your self with apositive mind and high spirit . I am sure you are a strong willed and have self confidence to carry on life without weak personalities in life yet to come .Good luck .
2006-09-20 08:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wondered why it bothers you so much if you have 'moved on'. Perhaps you should tell him that you whereas you don't want a relationship with him you thought you were both cool as good buddies and you find his behaviour perplexing....otherwise just tell the creep to do one!!
2006-09-20 07:49:08 · answer #4 · answered by widow_purple 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is incredibly rude for anyone to treat someone like that.
It obviously affects you as well as you have feelings.
Piece of advice for you though just forget about him he is not worth it,
If you cannot treat someone with respect then the rest is kind of senseless and this guy has no respect.
2006-09-20 08:08:00 · answer #5 · answered by ambidextrous25 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He wanted you for a quickie but now hes realised hes embarrassed to be seen with you, probably something his friends said.
He probably dont have a new girlfriend, just wants an excuse to get you off his back.
Move on, good luck.
2006-09-20 07:48:39 · answer #6 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would just leave him ,he is not worth it if you thught it was going somewhere and then you find out he's got a girlfriend. Find someone who is worthy of you...! Hope it works out x
2006-09-20 07:49:17 · answer #7 · answered by Angelkiss85 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes just embarrassed about how things went between ye - like he had led you on and then found himself a new girlfriend - his loss hun - you can do way better for yourself.
2006-09-20 08:11:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Overcome him as fast as you can. Try not to think about the past with him once you are work. He is trying to be behave professional at work. So you do.
2006-09-20 07:48:03 · answer #9 · answered by Shaktii J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hes obviously very immature and cant face talking to you now as he knows he was a prick.move on and find someone better sweetie good luck
2006-09-20 07:48:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He cheated on his girl and feels bad. Don't worry about it hun it's his loss. You just go on and have fun as usual
2006-09-20 07:46:49 · answer #11 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋