I've never been involved in swinging before but I'll do anything to keep my relationship.
2006-09-20 00:34:50 · 28 answers · asked by adriano 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
with all due respect dude, if your partner did really love you she wouldn't seek the attention of someone else. women tend to want attention all the time and of course love it when they get compliments. I myself like compliments but it stops there. I have been in a stable relationship with my boyfriend for the last 2 years and I would never never cheat on him! I was cheated upon and it is not a nice feeling. It leaves you hurt and it is very difficult to get the trust again in any human being! How does she feel about you cheating on her? I am sorry dude but your girlfriend doesn't even try to think about your feelings. she is very selfish and if you have some grey matter left you would dump her. How do you feel when she cheats on you? I bet its not a nice feeling so instead of getting hurt everytime she cheats on you just dump her erase her number her e.mail and everything and just live your life. I am sure that you will eventually find someone who really loves you and who doesn't need to resort to cheating in order to be satisfied!
2006-09-20 01:08:35 · answer #1 · answered by Natasha T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound as though this swinging idea is right for you. You have to want to swing too. Swinging is a swapping game - you will be expected to enjoy sex with another lady while your partner is enjoying sex with another man. Maybe all in the same room, maybe in separate rooms, maybe with a bigger group. Depends on the way the swinging group works. I looked into swinging recently because frankly it fascinated me as an idea - but in the end decided to give it a miss. So if it isn't right for you either - don't do it. If you can't do it then I think you would be best to leave this partner and let her find the swinging match that she apparently needs. Good luck.
2006-09-20 08:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by Roadrunner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have a problem with swinging. AT ALL.
... but you're doing it for the wrong reasons.
Hate to go with the morality brigade here, but you're gonna have to cut this one loose.
See, she "can't help cheating", but she still feels guilty. To alleviate this guilt, she wants to swing, so you'll get some nookie while she's getting plowed. Everyone's happy, no guilt! Yay!
And, normally, that's how it works. However, you don't sound like you're down with it... so yeah. Cut and run. Sorry man.
2006-09-20 07:46:40 · answer #3 · answered by kagetatewaki 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you think you will feel comfortable doing it then why not give it a go.Lots of people do it and surley at least if you no what your partners up to and if you will be doing the same thing then thats better than doing it behind your back!!
Look in to it a bit more and find out a bit more about it!!Good luck x
2006-09-20 07:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by jo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it just to keep your relationship. If you are not comfortable with it then don't get involved. If you love her that much can you honestly say you will be comfortable seeing her sleeping with other guys? Find a new girl that won't cause you so much pain.
2006-09-20 07:38:41 · answer #5 · answered by Trix 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you'll do anything to keep the realtionship you are in deep trouble as you seem very vulnerable and therefore open to manipulation. Dump her quick before she gets bored with you and breaks your heart.
2006-09-20 07:38:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wants the best of both worlds, you and everybody else, so if you agree to swinging she has your consent to sleep with other men.
2006-09-20 07:37:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are very forgiving,before you begin or keep going with this adventure let us all welcome another to the world of Herpies,Genital worts,gonorreha,Syphillis,and of coursevarious forms of Hepatitis,and best of all AIDS.At least most local governments will help pay for your treatments,please keep a job so you can contribute to the tax base that will soon be supporting you.Also keep a journal so it will be easier for the health dept to track the upcoming epidemic.
2006-09-20 07:48:09 · answer #8 · answered by fearlessfegundez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If my bloke cheated I would never forgive him, no matter how much I thought of him. You also have to think of std's as well. I think this is a bad idea, what if she falls in love with one of the other guys?
2006-09-20 07:39:33 · answer #9 · answered by The Way 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She might love you in her own twisted way but she doesnt respect you. Dont do anything your not comfortable with. In fact grow a pair and send her packing.She isnt the one for you
2006-09-20 09:39:58 · answer #10 · answered by Mick B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋