I recently entered in a love relationship with a girl, we had been friends for six months now ( but without any body contact). It was just this week end when we spent a night together of which I then discovered this lady has lots of tatoos on her back!
She told me, she did it while she was at school. I always had a belief that, having a tatoo (for ladies, particularly on your back) is sign of hooliganism/ being like a prostitute for a lady.
I have started searching more information about her background history, my trust with her has detororiated by 30%.
Please help me?? What will picture will get if you find you gf has totoos ( and she has neve told about this????)
2006-09-19 23:55:17 · 11 answers · asked by imma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There may be more slektons in the cupboards which you may later discover would shock you more.
If u can't trust as much as you were trusting her before.
There are two options
(1) If you love and can't live without her now, politely tell her that you would like to know few things which is bothering. you want her to be true. If later it is proved she lied on something you will have on choice but to say good bye.
(2) As now u know there is something fishy about this and you can live without her. you decide to say good bye now.
2006-09-20 00:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by Shaktii J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what? She has some tattoos from her past. It doesn't mean she "likes being a prostitute". In my opinion, you're the one with issues. Just because of tattoos you decided to dig up her past and you don't trust her? Are you sure there isn't another issue for all of this? And as for my tattoo, my bf loves it. I didn't tell him about it either. He found it on his own. Lighten up and ask yourself the real reason you're freaking out. You sure you're ready for a relationship? It might be that you're using the tattoo excuse as a reason to end things. Be honest with yourself and then her.
2006-09-20 00:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OVER IT!!! People get tattoos for many reasons, and it's about her, not you. Just enjoy them, look closely at them, have her explain what each one means to her. Then tell her you think they are cool. Enjoy the view when making love to her okay? If you really can't get past it, thenmove on to another girl, but you have to realize this issue is yours, not hers!!! Open your mind up a little!
2006-09-20 00:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by JP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your trust deteriorated by 30%, that's amazing how you can guage your trust like that. I'd be frightened if I were you, you think tattoos are bad, what about all the tramps that don't have stamps? I've got a good idea for you....GROW UP!
2006-09-20 00:03:06 · answer #4 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's past is past.
Since you're obviously too uptight for this lady, I suggest you break it off before you hurt her.
Am I wrong? Prove it. If you love her, you'll love ALL of her. Tattoos, spotty past (if there is one), everything. Yor beliefs hold you back. They serve you no purpose except to stand in judgement over others (which is a bad thing). Lose them.
2006-09-20 00:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by kagetatewaki 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh! does this make her a devil worshipper? tell me are you stuck in the 70s? people get tattoos to show expression! maybe you should go to church and date your second cousin!
2006-09-20 00:05:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a tatoo that saids wildfire
2006-09-20 00:02:25 · answer #7 · answered by Cornflakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will spray mine white liquid on her tattoos when i come
2006-09-19 23:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by 185 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a closer look
2006-09-20 00:04:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do what pleases your heart.
2006-09-20 00:00:15 · answer #10 · answered by chef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋