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Question

I am Yashna. I'm 14 years old. I love a boy. But i never told him. Bcoz:
Once, we, the girls had a fight that he was nonsense. He was not like that. We misunderstood him. But we never asked a sorry.

Then he usually scolded us. He thought us as his enemies than his friends. He never talked to us.

I never liked him before. But I love him now. I don't know how i should say him that i love him. I know that he likes me even though he never speaks to me. his name is Salai. R u the one? If yes, come to the class (classroom (class IX B) in Vikaasa School, Madurai, Tamil Nadu, India.) and kiss me. If no, plz give me suggestions on how to tell him that i love him. Plz

Answer 1

I saw other questions of you which said you were married to a GIRL.

Are you confused whether u r a man or a woman?

Answer 2

Hi Yashna, I understand how you feel. I, however disagree on a few things.

First of all, I don't think you love him. You've just got a crush on him. These crushes happen to anyone. Now, it's very bold of you to come out and say this. I can understand that you're a bold person just a little shy when he's around. That means that he's special. Or are you like this near every boy? Ask yourself that.

Now, all boys like three things in common. One is beauty. By beauty, I don't mean showing off, just prove that you're hot and impress him.

Next is intelligence. Prove that you're smart but not over-samrt if you get what I mean and he'll start noticing you.

Three is how you behave. If you behave really nicely and are polite and knid and understanding, It'll help you a lot. If you see him sad, console him and he'll remember that.

Usually, it's no use sneding him anonymous letters or e-mails cause that's mean and you're proving you're a coward. Don't play mind games with him.

I think you're a little shy so it's no use for you to blurt out that you really like him. Just drop occassional hints.

If he's a smart boy, he'll understand and then you'll know how he feels. Another important thing : Don't flirt at his friends or he'll feel upset.

Oh! Take this little hint as well. Don't act silly or crazy in front of him. He'll be amused but he won't really understand it. To show him what you are, behave like yourself.

Don't forget the three things that boys want. I told you before. Also, some one posted that you tell him you like some else. Don't do tat. you're making him jealous and annoyed. Don't ever do that.

I've covered most of it. Don't get too caught up in him. Remember if you flunk your studies, it's no use. Boys like intelligent, smart girls. Talk to your friends about it as well. Some one who understands you will make you feel pumped up and you'll feel nice.

Good luck and don't worry. All the best to you.

Answer 3

Should tell him how you feel. If you're too shy, what i did last time is that i call my secret admire. Sometime i wrote letter and e mail. But i can say, talk to him in person sure have the edge and more advantage.

Love is a lasting forever thing. So take your time. and no rush. Boys look at 2 things, prettyness and good personality. You know what pretty is. Good personality is the way u act and speak and how u behave yourself, also how u conduct yourself. They often look for good qualities. This is quite a tough area to improve. In other words, if they like u, means they really like u. If not, then, don't be sad and give up like others do, maybe there's still a chance u can improve.

All the best to u.

Answer 4

Yashna you may get boys like Salai or better than him to become your life partner. But, presently it seems that you are attracted towards him out of having discussions about him among your friends. It is a natural phenomenon which happens at your age in most of the girls. But, after attaining the age of maturity the thinking becomes different and one become rational. So, wait till you achieve the age of eighteen years before you propose Salai. Do not be worried if he also likes you he may carry the fact till he achieves the age of twenty one. Good luck.

Answer 5

Yes, Yashna, I am not Salai, but I know one Salai, he is very busy in loving girls with almost all schools nearby. So when I see him next time, I shall inform him about your wishes, if he is free then he will come...
Sorry I am joking
My friend , believe me, you are too young to engaged in these activities, now.
Concentrate in your studies now, otherwise you are making problem for you, your family and above all this innocent Salai also lost his studies.
Let it be like that now and when time comes you can engaged..

Answer 6

You are in class IX.You want to pass class IX with good marks and go to X.You want to or not?If you want to then don't get into this madness.Its just some thing you have seen in cinemas not reality.So don't be mad and spoil your life.Just be friends or I should say just like brothers and sisters when you are a student.Control your impulses and don't get into love so early.

Answer 7

Baby you are too young to know what true love is. Better concentrate on your studies. Love can wait for the time being.

Answer 8

I am not Salai so I can not answer. But if i were Salai, I would definitely come and kiss you because you love me.

Answer 9

This is not the age for u to do so if u r in true love then tell him about this after your school education is finished do not spoil ur studies.

Answer 10

See yeshna u r stupid. This is not the age to do this nonsense things. forget him & do your study. Make few good girl friends to plsy & enjoy. OK