i live alone and have no family or friends about, i get so lonely, i wake up in the nite, thats the worst time, when it's all quiet and i feel so lonely then and i have panic attacks, i hate it, my bdays and xmas are the worst, is anyone else in the same boat, i feel alone like its only me who has this prob, i'm 26 yrs old
2006-09-19 23:36:45 · 12 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
No. And that's quite odd. I love solitude. I love being alone, it's fantastic. I have only one friend and don't want anymore than that. In fact no friends would be fine with me. I have family but I love it when they are not home. I just don't want any new friends at all. I don't want to join any social clubs. Just like chillin with my two wonderful cats, working, using the computer. I'm 35, so maybe by the time you reach my age you'll love solitude, love peace and quiet, love just being by yourself.
2006-09-21 04:31:54 · answer #1 · answered by Professor Armitage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have get that way. Especially after the divorce from my first husband. I live in Mississippi and all my family lives in Michigan. I had no place to go for Christmas or anything. I did go by my ex in-laws but it was not for me, it was for the kids and they pretty much acted as if they did not see me.
To this day I still have very few friends. Any friends I had when I was younger I lost when I got married. The few that didn't care when I got married my ex ran them off. I had no one to turn to when I needed someone the most. I really wish i had some advice to give you, but I have ended up meeting most of the people I now know including my new hubby on line. The rest I have met doing Passion Parties.
2006-09-20 06:48:42 · answer #2 · answered by passionparties_by_suzanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not lonely.You made yourself lonely. Even you live alone, you can engage yourself, like watching TV, planning for tomorrow's work, reading books or magazine what ever interest you, etc. Once your body is exhausted you can have good sleep. Keep good thing s in mind, engage your mind in fantasies etc. All this will help you sol ur problems.
This problem is not only to you but to all who live alone even if they have friends and families.
2006-09-20 06:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by V R G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 26 years old, and I've been living alone for past 6 years... my life is just .. SAD.. in my work place everybody thinks that i'm really happey and blah blah blah and no one even know that i live by myself... I don't know why is that, but it's like no one allowed to break my silence, my lone...
yeah... there are some people like you!
2006-09-20 06:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by machinechiane 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes...I live with someone and am still lonely. I'm in the same boat as you...I'm 27 and still live with my dad. Well,he lives with me, but he doesn't talk to me so it's very lonely.
2006-09-20 06:45:59 · answer #5 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh no!!! i am not alone i live by myself but i have a lot of people here family and such. but at night i am alone . it is lonely at that time but the days are full of laughter. i do understand where you are coming from. have your friends over to stay.
2006-09-20 06:40:52 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh man.. don't say christmas..
last time i had already fell out with the family and i saw no-one.. my tv packed up and all i could get was one channel.. with that bloody song "last christmas, i gave you my heart, but the very next day" over and over again.. i am DREADING this christmas..
2006-09-20 10:12:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not
and why don't you start searching for a new friend
and a girlfriend will help you allot
2006-09-20 06:41:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about your loneliness,I hope you believe in God because I going to pray for you at church
2006-09-20 06:39:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am here....surrounded by people yet alone & lonely....
2006-09-20 06:42:46 · answer #10 · answered by Robin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋