I had dream last night that felt important:- I was driving along the coast road bettween Bridport and weymouth it is a road i use alot in the real world and i know well. My wife is in the car and we are going to colect the children, we are late and my wife is telling me we are going the wrong way. the road starts to rise in a steep hill and the ground falls away either side of the road, there is only 1-2 inces either side of the car and a shear drop both sides. We reach the top of the hill and start to decend when my hair falls over my eyes, i brush the hair away but i am blind!
I woke up at this point and felt so strongly that it was important that i got up and wrote it down. I split up with my wife recently and the children live with me. i know this dream is about the colaps of my marage but i dont know what it maens. Do you?
2006-09-19 23:32:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
It means that you're understandably preoccupied with your recent split, and you're interpreting your nightly random neuron firings in ways that relate to that preoccupation.
When others tell you that it means X or Y based on the content of the dream, you'll be seeing a reflection of their own preoccupations.
2006-09-19 23:36:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, more or less, you know that this dream is implying.
Driving the road you always go = your normal routine
being told by wife it is wrong way = guilty feeling
road starts to rise in a steep hill = problem in marriage
Your hair fall over your eyes and you are blind = suppression of guilt feeling.
It could well be because of your ex marriage. You may have some guilty feeling in you although the split up may not be your fault. However, the children may be the burden in your case. Even though the children are not in the main roles in the dream, they are the objectives of your dream. You and your wife were picking up them. Your routine was changed because of the separation. That is why you projected the changes of the road as well. As far as being blind goes, you may have regret about the split and you suppress your feeling on realizing how it will be. In other words, you don't want to see it happened and you want to make yourself blind because things have changed and you may be in denial. This comes from your subconscious mind.
2006-09-20 01:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems clear to me.
Wrong way refers to the differences between the thinking of you and your wife.
Road getting narrower means that unless someone breaks out of the current thought patterns there is nowhere for your relationship to go but over the edge into oblivion.
Hair falling in your eyes means that preconceptions that you have keep you from seeing the situation clearly.
Blindness means that the answer can not be found within the old thought systems that the two of you ascribed to and will require a fresh look from a new perspective.
Best dump the old paradigm that kept your marriage on the road to ruin and try to see what it is that your wife is feeling if you can do it.
I suggest that for now you focus on your responsibilities with respect to your children.
Stop feeling sorry for your self and attend to their needs. They need you a lot more now than they ever did.
Give your wife some time to reflect, and Analise you own actions and think about what you could have done to make things different.
Good luck.
Love and blessings don
2006-09-19 23:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means that you feel you are not listening to your wife in the way you believe you should. Perhaps work or the stress of a regular day keep you too busy, and you wish to share more of your time with those you love. A nice weekend at home with all the family usually does a lot of good. Think in pizza night or something you know your family enjoys. You need to spend a little more time with your family, that will make you feel more complete, and those dreams will go away. :)
2006-09-19 23:43:41 · answer #4 · answered by Blau 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a dream when you are in a car that means control if you are driving it's your control.The fact that you (ex) wife is there too could mean a struggle for control. descending down a steep hill means a battle. You have to keep focused ( hair in the eyes) and have very strict control on a downward struggle for control while everything falls apart around you
2006-09-19 23:44:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe the blindness reflects your uncertainty about your future. Are you going to be a good dad and be there when you're needed and see the children grow up into worthwhile adults? Are you sometime in the future going to meet another person who can be your partner in life and love and like you for who you are? Are you going to cope with all the responsibilities upon your shoulders?
The answers are yes, yes, yes. Be kind to yourself and take it day by day.
2006-09-19 23:37:17 · answer #6 · answered by aliantha2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you sleep, is the perfect time for your mind to "pigeonhole" thoughts that you don't allow to surface.
Acknowledge the dream and go on with your life. I doubt that there is any "secret" in the dream.
Its all part of a healing process that may take a while to finish.
2006-09-19 23:38:27 · answer #7 · answered by dcall2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means it's a dream. Make note of what you had for dinner that evening. High proteins and sometimes spicey foods will enhance/exacerbate dreaming.
Other than that, there's nothing mystical about it.
2006-09-19 23:37:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that it means that when you get older, you may get blind!!
Aside from that, maybe its trying to give you a message. The message maybe a sign that you do not follow your wife's "wants" in life that is why in your dream. you did not follow your wife's wanting to go the other way because she thinks that where you are going is wrong.....then you separate with you wife.....get the picture???
2006-09-19 23:45:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means that you feel lost not being a married man anymore. You wish that you had a helpmate in the rearing of your children. You feel inadequate to do such a task yourself.
2006-09-19 23:43:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋