My boyfreind John and i just broke up on sunday because he wanted to try dating my freind christiana!!! She told me that she chould never love john like i do, yet she wrote across this note in high lighter " I LOVE U JOHN!!!" She wrote that before me and john even broke up!!! She was being a backstabbing ***** !!!!! How can i get him back and save him from her hurting him!!!!! Plz help!!
Kelse
2006-09-19 23:21:55 · 17 answers · asked by Kelse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say forget this guy and your so called friend.....Trust me this guy isn't worth it, since you said that he "wanted to try dating my friend christina!!!".....he chose her over you, and if she plays with this feelings what do you care? That girl isn't really your friend, you said so yourself "she was being a backstabbing *****!!".....why do you even want to bother getting him back? He did this once, what tells you he won't try to hit on your other friends??? Guys like these aren't worth it, if you have a boyfriend I think you should be able to trust him, unless you still trust this guy?? Good Luck
2006-09-20 02:03:31 · answer #1 · answered by hey_amt95 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't.
See, if he drops you this easily... FOR YOUR (and I use this term loosely) FRIEND, he will drop you just as easily for anything in a tight babydoll tee.
Possibly quicker if she's wearing Daisy Dukes.
It's over. Time to say goodbye. Mourn your loss, then go date someone else. When he hits on you after seeing that you've moved on, laugh in his face. Loudly. That burning feeling you'll experience while you're walking away is you regaining your pride and self-worth.
2006-09-19 23:30:17 · answer #2 · answered by kagetatewaki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be strategist, don't rush forward yourself. plan a counter by luring john back to you with something that you know that he likes and love that she don't.
and try to do it in a low profile way, most boys are attracted to glitch seduction, act like there is nothing more between you and john infront of her and she might just ran off like a cat have lost her interest in playing with the thing you like,
so good luck on winning back his heart, and annoy her.
2006-09-19 23:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by marxice21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kelse, let it go. Find new friends ! Don't give him the satisfaction of having two females fighting over him. It just makes both of you look stupid.
2006-09-19 23:26:51 · answer #4 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
kelse, have the courage to tell him the truth.
if he doesn't listen to you, ignore him for awhile.
when he finds out the truth one day, he will realise that u telling him the truth & probably he will make-up with u again
gd luck!
ps: even after some time, he doesnt make-up with u,
think positive, there r guys out there waiting for u
2006-09-19 23:28:12 · answer #5 · answered by *SugaryLips* 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He isn't worth it.
Why would you want him back when he left you to date your
friend.Your mad at just her ,you should be mad at them both!!!!
You deserve a friend that won't stab you in your back and a man
that won't leave you for your friend.Let them have each other.He
hurt you by going to her.If he gets hurt so be it.
Find yourself a new friend and man that will treat you right
2006-09-19 23:31:38 · answer #6 · answered by kandn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look it is sth that happened think about sn else coz he will never be that past john again so go and look for sn else kelse
2006-09-19 23:28:17 · answer #7 · answered by N0t Known Never Ever 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best advice you're gonna get is to try and get over him! begin today and forget him, rather than trying to get him back, show him what he missed for that girl..and he is not innocent.. your girlfriiend stabbed you in the back but so did he.. if he wanted another girl it shouldnt have been your best friend!!! they deserve eachother, and let him be hurt for dumping you!So just FORGET HIM!
2006-09-19 23:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by Bellatrix 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would not even try... let him go sounds like it dose not take much for him to move on.
make new friends, you can do without someone that will do that to you.. they are not true friends.
2006-09-19 23:31:50 · answer #9 · answered by redditch b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to school. concentrate on your work. get good grades. go to college. go back to your 10y/o high school reunion as a doctor. laugh at them when they're overweight, balding, working at the local kwiki-mart and have 10kids.
2006-09-19 23:24:05 · answer #10 · answered by .jess 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋