Am a 19 year old guy, and never had a proper relationship. Am extremely shy, exspecially when it comes to talking to the girl i like. But otherwise, people say that am a great guy and any girl would be lucky to have me. I need advice. Any takers?
2006-09-19 23:16:47 · 12 answers · asked by i_hate_life_tr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i just need advice on what to do, that will help me get a girl. Am sick of being single.
2006-09-19 23:21:53 · update #1
you need to get yourself an ice breaker, meaning maby a mate that could back you up a little, say for instance you see a girl you like you need a mate who will say something to her first and let you continue talking the hardest part on speaking to a girl is breaking the ice, once you have started talking all the shyness will start to tumble away, try find a mate who is not shy but at the same time once he has broke the ice for you he will back away from her. i wish you the best of luck in this.
2006-09-19 23:28:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am with a guy who was some what like you was shy but very talented and didnt know how many girls used to admire him
he used to speak alot with his eyes
and now i also have problem sometimes dealing with those girls having crush on him
well i think you need to wait coz he did the same and got [a wonderful girl ]like me he says so
2 years in a relationship now very happy no grudges no worries
i just forget everything when i am with him
such a nice person to live with
hope you also find the love of your life soon
dont worry the best is on your way
2006-09-19 23:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this. Center yourself. Who are you? What are you? Think of all those characteristics that make you who you are. The memories. The feelings. The hopes. The experiences. The next time you see a woman, do not look at her on the outside, but use your x-ray vision to look at her on the inside. Like you, she is made up of exactly the same ingredients. She is human. She is a person. You are the same. Talking to her should be as easy as talking to yourself.
2006-09-19 23:20:48 · answer #3 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just start at a point. Like say, saying hello to a girl? then maybe introducing yourself and asking her a question about herself? or maybe just to get your confidence up, try saying hello to a few girls, even if you don't know them, when you pass then like on the street or in a doorway etc.?
2006-09-19 23:21:30 · answer #4 · answered by duifie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we the same in few parts am 17 girl. never had a relationship, shy as hell never can talk to lads so there it is. bet ur looks can help if u can come through ur shyness.
2006-09-19 23:23:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM dying to hear what a "proper" relationship is, and what is so "special" about you that girls would be "lucky"? come on homeboy whats-up?what u need is a playstation and a popsicle
2006-09-19 23:24:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pls........Don't get into a relationship just because you wish to enter into one. Do you know you may end up hurting others and yourself.
You have to reconsider if you are a great guy, afterall.
2006-09-19 23:27:35 · answer #7 · answered by joy_chia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start talking to a girl who is ur friend .. it will bulit up the habit of talking to girls.. donot consider/think each girl as ur potential girlfrind.. just take them casually n say hi .. eventually it will click...
2006-09-19 23:40:48 · answer #8 · answered by hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wots the advice your seeking?
dont keep us in suspense add your questions we aint got all day
2006-09-19 23:18:09 · answer #9 · answered by oz_gurl2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes gal may like guys that have some naughty moves.
2006-09-19 23:21:47 · answer #10 · answered by janying87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋