my mates girlfriend is wild,she pretty and very sexual,she told me i remind her of her ex for 2 days my fiance would not leave my side sex was great,her ex used to cheat on her and she come running to him all the time,i need to make her jealous what can i do?i know now what my fiance ex got in sex department and i want more,i dont want to treat her like he did i love her,how can i make her jealous without hurting her?
2006-09-19 20:56:46 · 27 answers · asked by jonas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust me making her jealous without hurting her won't happen. If she has any sense she will leave you.
Tell her that she is better off without you, you can't go around cheating.
2006-09-19 20:59:45 · answer #1 · answered by Scatty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop right there and think about what you're doing.
This is your fiancee, your future wife, you are her future husband. If you really love her you will do anything you can to stop her from getting hurt, I know you said you don't want to hurt her, so thats a start, but its not enough. This is thr girl you are going to spend the rest of your life with. Why on earth do you want to make her jealous? It will only create problems between you, it might even result in her calling off the marriage......do you really want this?
You need to learn a bit more about how you should look after your wife, you need to do things which build up your trust for one another, not make her doubt you or you doubt her.
Your fiancee is with you know, forget about the past, your past and her past, you should tell each other about your pasts, but then forget it completely, its history. Otherwise it could bring up a lot of problems. I too am getting married soon (in jan) and I've been engaged for almost 2 years, initially we had problems like this, where we hurt each other because of our insecurities and a lack of trust. But you have to work on building that trust,forget about other girls completely, you have found the girl you want to be with and you have won her over. Now its you and her. You should look after her, try not to hurt her, be there for her when she is hurt, trust her and make her trust you.
If you mean that your fiancee's ex got more in the bedroom that your getting, don't worry just forget it, because at the end of the day, you got her and she is your forever. If you are feeling bad about this, then tell her gently that you feel sort of jealous or something and ask her if she will do the same thing with you to make you feel better. Try new things with her, ask her and be gentle with her. If you are being considerate of her feelings and how the sex feels for her then she won't be afraid to try new things (if you will stop if she doesn't like it)..
I wish you the best of luck in your marriage. Congratulations!!
2006-09-19 21:17:37 · answer #2 · answered by lakmii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me if you feel the need to make your fiance jealous, dump her. Women are not worth the trouble. Look for a woman who makes it obvious she likes you and only you (by the way that is not always the most tasty woman). Walking out with a woman that every man has got his eye on spells trouble. All women look the same ten years on and only realy flower for a few years between say 16 to 25. So don't make the mistake of having cause to be jealous or watchful towards your woman. A year into marriage the nagging gene sets in and every woman becomes the same. You spend the next forty plus years listening to crap and moans. Nevertheless; the old saying you cant live with them but you can't live without them that's also true, that's why lateral thinking is required when chosing a mate. When your getting to know a woman: make sure she offers to buy a round when she goes out with you; make sure its you she defends in an argument or discussion, the slightest indecation that she defends anyone else dump her (beleive me I'm right she 's not worth a carrot to you); make sure she is prepared to look after you. If she gets the urge to wash your underpants you know she is definitely interested in you. Women are as intelligent as men so when you get one who starts spouting women's rights get lost as fast as your legs will carry you and I mean dump her then and there.
This advice has been given in good faith and beleve me my experinces with women have been many but even then a man never learns.
Wise up and don't be a fool
2006-09-19 21:42:37 · answer #3 · answered by Redmonk 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-08-21 07:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-09 14:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by fontagne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 05:06:02 · answer #6 · answered by valda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG... do not make her jealous, do you not think she has been through enough. Instead romance her, show her you truely love her and you arent a bastard like her ex !!!! Trust doesnt come over night, it can take years after someone has treated you like her ex did. Trust me, just keep telling her you love her and you would never treat her like her ex and things will be fine. If you love this woman, why make her jealous !
2006-09-19 21:00:07 · answer #7 · answered by jayne 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Feeling jealous makes your feelings hurt, especially when you find out someone caused you to feel that way on purpose.
2006-09-19 21:00:53 · answer #8 · answered by raininmyshoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play mind games, it is the worst thing you can do. If you play games with her mind you might just end up playing games alone, do you know the game Mrs Palmer and her 5 daughters? Might need to learn it if you're gonna play games with peoples emotions. Oh and btw the guys who's opinion is just above mine can teach you how to play the Mrs palmer and her 5 daughters game, he knows it well.
2006-09-19 22:07:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dont try and make her jealous as it could back fire and you will lose out completely, just be honest with her and tell her how much you enjoyed her being so close, and only her, also how wonderful you were together.
2006-09-19 21:34:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋