My best friend, would like to date other girls. But I don't know how to feel toward this. I am not hating on her. She is dating a guy right now; however, she day-dreams and always be checking out other girls all the time and thinking about other girls. She may be interested in other girls. But how should I go about helpping her out, since I am her best friend. And friend usually help each other out with dating.???
2006-09-19 20:51:30 · 9 answers · asked by Dream oh Dream 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give her advices. tell her about all the consequences. and after all the advices and still she feels like dating other girls, i think all u have to do is to accept the fact that she likes girls.. and i dont think that ur friendship will end there. she needs support and understanding.. most especially, she needs prayer..
2006-09-19 21:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by ok 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How old is your friend? If she is a teenager its perfectly normal for these feelings to arise, there are more teenagers who go through this same situation than we ever hear about because its classed as a taboo issue, as wrong. Society makes us think this way. Everyone is different, if this is a phase she will get over it, if its not then that's the way she is and there is nothing you or she can do about it, be there for her , support her, be honest with her. Talk this through with her, she needs to know you are there for her no matter what. She is probably as confused about all this as you are Hun. So be supportive understand ing and help her work through this no matter what the outcome helping her date is no different whether her choice is male or female, She wants to be Happy and as a friend all you should want for her is to be happy, Good luck
2006-09-19 20:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may sound a little crazy here but why not take her to a gay bar. If u have a bf take him with so that they dont hit on u. And then set her up that way. And as for her bf if she wants gurls tell her to ditch the guy. Support her in what she wants to do it will make u feel better.
2006-09-19 21:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by Adam K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you really aren't comfortable with your friends decision, so if you really want to help her out and make your self feel good about it, introduce her to girls that you think she will like, and that you already know, and they are alos intrestind in dating girls, if you are hooking your friend up with girls youknow than you knwo how she is going to be treated and still be involved in her life.
hope that made sense
2006-09-19 20:57:17 · answer #4 · answered by Wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your friends choice whom she dates.Just be supportive and let her do her own thing.As far as helping her out,I bet she can find a girl on her own.Just be there is she wants to talk.
2006-09-19 20:56:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think it is getting out of hand with all the people that seem to except homosexualality these days,It is just plain wrong.let her know it is really not o.k.
2006-09-19 20:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the previuos answer
2006-09-19 20:55:50 · answer #7 · answered by chereeder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur q is confused
2006-09-19 20:56:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her to church !! no lie.. homosexuality or bisexuality ain't natural..
2006-09-19 20:54:10 · answer #9 · answered by uniqu3ang3l 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋