Ok, well we all know that ladies like certain things i.e. grooming and hygeine lol so the average man has to be clean, neat and well groomed, but what else, any certain aftershave ladies like, what type of things should your man do for you? e.g. take you for meals, run you a bath, suprise you randomly with gifts....e.t.c.
Any particular build of man ladies like? In my experience they dont like men to be too muscly, but a slim-athletic will toned build is what they prefer.
How important is it that we ring you constantly and why do you get pissd off with us when we dont?
2006-09-19 20:47:03 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im pretty much an average bloke
5ft 9, 11 and a half stone (160lbs)
21 Years Old, Blue Eyes, Brown Spikey Hair,
2006-09-19 20:53:30 · update #1
Stop worrying too much about what you look like and develop a strong sense of humour. Look at Johnny Vegas, Robbie Coltrane, Eddie Izzard, Chris Moyles etc - not the most handsome men on the planet, but boy do they attract women.
Also develop your feminine side and become interested in what women are talking to you about. I work with a guy who loves women's minds as well as their bodies and he always pulls when he is out clubbing. Women are fed up with the neanderthal man. With regard to the phoning, if you say you will call, do so, as it is just bad manners not too.If she needs constant calls she might be lacking in confidence and self esteem - so some reassurance might be in order.
2006-09-20 01:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by feebee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think romance is important in a relationship, and little surprises are really nice. Doesn't need to be gifts or anything expensive. Maybe being whisked off at lunch time to the river or the beach or somewhere for a nice picnic, that sort of thing. Basically I want to feel wanted and appreciated. So I just need to know that my man is willing to put in a bit of effort for me.
As for build, we're all different in our preferences, but I like an athletic body. The right sort of body should feel like you're cuddling up to a man, not a stick, and not a large pillow.
I personally would really prefer that my man didn't call me constantly. How annoying! Some form of contact once a day is fine, it can be email or text message. As long as you call often enough that we don't forget what you sound like.
2006-09-19 20:55:51 · answer #2 · answered by zanzibar138 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 50/50 relationship. Not being taken for granted and definately not been treated like a 1950's housewife. Housework needs to be done...we don't enjoy it!
I don't care what you look like or how you smell...infact the quicker you are in bathroom the better. Vanity is a real turn off.
We just want to feel like the most important thing in your life...so keep sending text messages and calling for no reason.
Oh...and a big dick isn't that important....equality is though! We like sex too and pleasure should be a two way thing.
2006-09-19 21:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by soggykipper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound great to me, but.. what is your personality like. You can have everything that fits a woman's looks criteria, but having a great sense of humour, a romantic streak and very loving is what I am after. You could be fat an balding, but if you treat me like a Princess, I don't really care. Looks fade, we all know that, so dont judge a book by its cover, always read what is inside.
Aftershave - burberry erm... i dont know, will have to ask my bf, cos his smells beautiful
Likes - pls take us out for meals, buy us flowers and chocolates, tell us you love us, run a bath, surprise us..however, I like to also do the following to my man, so make sure its not constantly one sided
Just keep the relationship alive !!!
2006-09-19 21:15:47 · answer #4 · answered by Jayne H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The appearance of confidence and being in control is very important. It makes a girl respect you. Being needy is worrying - what is wrong with this guy that he needs me? Women need the reassurance that a man respects them for their minds as well as their bodies.
And yes, calling is important. It means that you think we're important - but again, not every day! That's stalking!
And don't worry too much about your build. It's the person inside your body who counts!
2006-09-19 20:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat me like you would your own mother. Such as open doors, pull out a chair for me at the table when we go to a nice restaurant, maybe a moonlit walk in the park. Otherwise as long as you keep a neat and tidy appearance (don't look like you just crawled out of the gutter) I would be sold. For me, keeping in contact every couple of days would be fine for me. If you called constantly, I would probably think you were desperate. Not calling constantly would mean that you value me as a person and realize that I still need time to myself to be myself instead of having a growth attached to me at every available moment. If you did this to me, I would go with you hook, line, and sinker. Finding a guy like this today is next to impossible.
2006-09-19 20:59:01 · answer #6 · answered by scarlettohara1861 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a guy to be caring, not overpowering. I enjoy being romanced and suprised occasionally. I like to be treated like a woman, doors opened etc, I don't go for all this equality stuff as it spoils romance. I like the man to be in charge and have the ability to be assertive, I don't like wimps who are afraid to do something for fear of upsetting their partners. I like a guy to be clean and ok dressed, not over the top and not too vain. I like a man to make me feel like I am the most beautiful person in the world, I like to be cuddled. I am happy because I found such a man, we are married 20 years and it's built on trust and respect, we do lots together but maintain our 'own' stuff as well. I don't like ski ing and he does, so he goes with the guys, I go with the girls for hot sun! we have nights out together and also apart, we trust each other, I think you need this to allow any relationship to flourish. Go find your special someone and have fun!!
2006-09-19 21:03:12 · answer #7 · answered by pottydotty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem to have it sussed - suprises, lots of non-sexual hugs as well as sexual ones. Lots of little messages of love. Little things like washing the dishes without being asked. Or flowers when she doesnt expect it. You seem sorted enough to work it out.
2006-09-19 20:51:03 · answer #8 · answered by boo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of women are looking for a father-figure. Confident, protective, and always knows what to do.
2006-09-19 20:51:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They ought to be searching for movie stars instead of ordinary men (given your aforementioned characteristics).
2006-09-19 20:53:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋