Well I gave the girlfriend space and after that she broke up with me all over one argument about a ex of hers. I just got mad at her and she said she just couldnt forgive me for getting mad at her. Now its 240 and I cant sleep how do I get over her. She is the love of my life. :(
2006-09-19 20:42:32 · 20 answers · asked by Need Much Help 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You cant be with her, no one can! If she's going to dump you coz you got mad then how is she ever going to stay with anyone??? Every person she is ever with is bound to get angry at her over something, thats just life. Move on.
2006-09-19 20:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when someone says, "I need space", it is an incomplete sentence. It usually means, "I need space.....without you in it". She was wanting to break up with you before the so called argument. It was her "out" or excuse to break it off.
Now you need to man up and find someone new. Crying about it like a little baby won't make her come back nor make it all better. Maybe if you let her know these things sooner than later, you would still be together.
2006-09-20 03:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's in love with you then she'd make it work.
How long were you two together? Maybe, she still needs to work on problems with her ex.
It's real important to give space between a divorce and a new relationship. The ones that occur too soon after a divorce arent usually good ones. Check with her from time to time or perhaps its best cuz she's not able to give you 100%.
2006-09-20 03:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she was just using the 'I need more space' line as an excuse to break up with you. Not knowing the real extent of the story, I can't really comment on the argument about the ex. If it was just jealousy on your part, I can see her point. But if you have good reason to be concerned, and have talked to her about it before, sounds like she's not worth the effort.
2006-09-20 03:47:07 · answer #4 · answered by zanzibar138 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OUCH! The past shouldn't be a conversation with your lover unless it's affecting your present situation. (I don't know the details, but that's asking for trouble).
If you didn't give her space she probably would have ended it anyway, so the space was the classy way to end it (scary begging and crying scenes are way embarrasing to look back on).
If that's how she feels, she doesn't feel like she should about you and it also kinda sounds like she was looking for any excuse to break up with you. that's her problem if she doesn't think you are too wonderful to let go.
screw her and move on, my friend! (it goes away eventually)
2006-09-20 03:46:57 · answer #5 · answered by tami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lotsa us have been there. I learned it is indeed having loved and lost is better than to have never loved at all. This may be temporary u no. Women usually do not want space so if she asked for it perhaps she was on her way out b4 then. Get back on thats a good way to forget
2006-09-20 03:46:54 · answer #6 · answered by icheeknows 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mate that was just an excuse, she was looking to get out all along. Sorry about that. She didn't have enough character to be honest with you. Save yourself for someone who will love you the way you want to be loved. So hard to do - so worth the wait.
2006-09-20 03:45:15 · answer #7 · answered by teef_au 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The way to get over her is to have fun and maybe find another girl and see if she can take your mind off your worries.Just move on and enjoy life.It will be worth it in the long run.I guess it just wasn't meant to be between you's two.You shouldn't want someone who doesn't want you.Good luck!
2006-09-20 03:52:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like an immature and not serious girl. move on!! this kinda thing happened once and sure going to happen again in the future. I'm sure you don't want to have a relationship with an unreasonable, naive and moody girl. you'll suffer.
2006-09-20 03:56:04 · answer #9 · answered by #1 Girl -She's Bittersweet- 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens.
women are freaking insane.
heres a test...
go to youtube and listen to some songs by "air supply"
do they sound a) awful ...as they should? or b) perfect?
if b) then you are near the bottom, which means theres no where to go but up.
cheer up , i think ive got it worse than you , i just dont know it yet.
2006-09-20 03:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋