If I drink and feel merry I love it but when I go past that stage and have a couple too many I turn into a monster and think the world is against me - totally out of character as I'm normally a fun-loving easy going laid back gal. I'm seriously thinking about giving up drinking.
2006-09-19 20:19:05 · 19 answers · asked by missieclass 4 in Food & Drink ➔ Beer, Wine & Spirits
No the real person is a sober me not the drunk version and all that about you only tell the truth when you are drunk is b*****it.
2006-09-19 20:35:55 · update #1
I totally relate to what you are saying. This has been the story of my life. I have wasted far to many nights either crying my eyes out for no apparent reason or taking offence at something someone's said and then going off on one. I used to try and avoid certain drinks but I'm now coming to the conclusion that me and alcohol is not a good combination.
The solution is - stop drinking. If your mates have seen what you are like after a few too many then they should be supportive of you.
After all life's too short to waste it being out of control, waking up with a bad hangover and (possibly) having to apologise to people you may have upset. What's the point!
2006-09-19 20:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by gooner_girl2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sad story
go to Oregonlive.com and you can listen to an 18year old boy get shot and killed early Saturday morning by Tigard, Oregon(Ptld. Metro Area) police. You can hear the entire thing take part, because the 911 tape was released yesterday.
He, Lukus Glenn, had a "few too many" and his mother called 911 when he was getting rowdy after some friends brought him home from a party. The police came and did not try to settle him down, they yelled and yelled and yelled at him. Threw his friend that didn't have anything to do with it to the ground and then shot the 18year old, while his mom was on the phone with the 911 dispatcher.
All this took place right outside his home, he was shot because he had a pocket knife in his hand and wanted to go inside to be with his parents.
The kid was just skunk as.s drunk and the yelling confused him and angered him, because he was just so drunk he really had no idea what was happening; Almost a dream state if you've ever been that drunk before.
2006-09-19 20:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I use to have the same problem. After having a few drinks I would even go against my friends who were out trying to have a good time with me. Eventually I learned to control it by not going past the stage when I would start to feel merry, I would stop drinking so the alcohol effect would go down or else I would get to that stage is when you become someone you didn't even know existed and you want to fight the whole world. My advice is learn to control your drinking or else don't drink! You'll save yourself some embarrasment.
2006-09-19 20:46:32 · answer #3 · answered by CR 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a mad person. The alcohol inhibits you and the true you comes out or alcohol intoxication makes you made. Either way you are just as made as the rest of the people who drink. Stop drinking before you do something you can't take back or undo. Your are like a bomb and when you explode the damage will be too great and you won't be able to make repairs. What the hell is making you drink? Figure that out and you have found the cure. Cure the problem and you will get better. Get better and you won't drink.
2006-09-19 20:32:18 · answer #4 · answered by lydia 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yep - thats me all over!! I turn into a monster too, and then when/if i sober up a little then i turn back to be nice lil ole me again! It's like i have a split personality!
I think some of us were just not made to drink!!
2006-09-19 20:21:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am exactly the same. Saturday night was a nightmare. Got to the merry stage and then I start dringing faster and faster. I think it could be Vodka. I've spoke to a few people and they have said Vodka or just drinking spirts all night does exactly the same to them. What do you drink?
2006-09-19 20:46:46 · answer #6 · answered by Vicky M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This needs serious study and diagnosis.
I myself don't have a problem, tending to get happier and calmer when I drink. Many I have drunk with have this problem, with some it's only one type of alcohol - like whiskey.
They do things that get them in serious trouble and talk like they have paranoid schizophrenia, listening to no-body and no-one.
For some it is caused by repressed anger, but believe me I can clock those guys sober and don't drink with them.
What I am talking about is chemically induced psychosis.
2006-09-19 20:34:21 · answer #7 · answered by Simon D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes I totally relate to this - My husband has told me I must stop drinkin - it causes too mant arguements. I start off great telling jokes & enjoying myself then 1 glass later I am crying or being abusive to someone. I found it was red wine that sent me loopy - try changing you tipple or maybe give up for a few months. In the end I have given up as I had too many weekends spent apologising to my mates
2006-09-19 20:29:25 · answer #8 · answered by swoodleybird 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that's me, I turn into a monster, screaming, crying, lashing out. I don't drink at all anymore, it's just not safe for me to drink.
2006-09-19 21:41:07 · answer #9 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might depend on what you drink. I`m a friendly drunk on ale but put me on the cider and i get loud and lairy ! try drinking a different drink.
2006-09-19 20:38:21 · answer #10 · answered by Jotun 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋