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2006-09-19 20:08:34 · 22 answers · asked by ikramulhaq03 1 in Family & Relationships Weddings

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TRUE MEANING OF LOVE IS CONDITIONAL DEDICATION TO YOUR PARTNER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-19 21:00:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

to try all ur very best for e love u found till e very end. rather than abandoning it jus because u feel like it. it's alot of hardwork.

why do u love ur parents. it's because u know they're stuck with u for life. so it's either u learn to make things better or suffer all e way. u cant throw them away. if only u can take e same thinking into relationships, maybe u will have one true contented love.

someone in yahoo answer found tis n i think it's really good.

EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies.

Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love... because it's happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the imagery of that __expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.

Falling is love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience.But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else.

This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, church, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.

But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it.I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.

Because (listen carefully to this): THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the __expression "the labor of love." Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you can "make" love.

Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... not just a feeling.

2006-09-20 03:23:16 · answer #2 · answered by wallybelly 3 · 0 0

Married for 6 years now, I have been with my wife since I was 16 years old. I think true love is when you are able to look at the persons' good and bad qualities day in and day out and still want to be with them, still want to have and hold a relationship with them. When you disagree, which happens in all healthy relationships, you manage to still find a part of you which has compassion for that person. It's when you love a person regardless of how they look when they wake up, even if they gain or lose a few or a lot of pounds. Love, in my opinion is a choice, we choose to love and choose not to love.

2006-09-23 10:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by christianstrauss51 2 · 0 0

What's that quote from the Bible that they read at weddings? "Love is patient, love is kind, slow to anger, never jealous, rejoices in what's right etc etc..." I think that is the ideal love. Many of us don't live up to that (especially me, I do tend to get jealous). The true meaning of love is caring about someone so much that you would give your life for them, if you had to. You put them above yourself. Whether it's a platonic love (friend or family member) or romantic love, it's such a deep affection & respect for them that you would do anything for them...

2006-09-20 03:21:26 · answer #4 · answered by amp 6 · 0 0

hahhahahahaha, r u in love mate?

well here goes.....

My opinion of love with a partner seems just as you describe it. Love experienced deeply with a partner can grow to feeling caring love for family, friends, community, world, universe - and not just people, but every aspect of creation. Loving one person deeply is a fast-track to experiencing Divine Love, unconditional love. And in communion with the Divine, in communion or unconditional love with all we discover a depth of happiness and joy that is ever there; a never-ending flow of energized warmth. I think that true love is carrying the love of the Divine into practical everyday living.

btw, nice suit mate....

2006-09-20 03:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by Jendralus 5 · 1 0

Love is when you love someone so much that you would die just to save their life. To be in unity with the one you love and act like one as rather acting.being two. Love is understanding,compassion, caring and, responsibility. Love is when you say that you love someone and you mean it and show it. Love is when you you love someone for who they are and not who they aren't or how they look or how good they are in bed. You love someone for who they are no matter what. If you truly love someone you won't leave them no matter what stands in your way.

2006-09-20 15:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by Andy 5 · 1 0

1 Corinthians 13:4-7

2006-09-20 03:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

1. a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person.
2. a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or friend.
3. sexual passion or desire.
4. a person toward whom love is felt; beloved person; sweetheart. the way you feel about someone and show your affactions to them.
5. (used in direct address as a term of endearment, affection, or the like): Would you like to see a movie, love?
6. a love affair; an intensely amorous incident; amour.
7. sexual intercourse; copulation.
8. (initial capital letter) a personification of sexual affection, as Eros or Cupid.
9. affectionate concern for the well-being of others: the love of one's neighbor.
10. strong predilection, enthusiasm, or liking for anything: her love of books.
11. the object or thing so liked: The theater was her great love.
12. the benevolent affection of God for His creatures, or the reverent affection due from them to God.
13. Chiefly Tennis. a score of zero; nothing.
14. a word formerly used in communications to represent the letter L.
–verb (used with object) 15. to have love or affection for: All her pupils love her.
16. to have a profoundly tender, passionate affection for (another person).
17. to have a strong liking for; take great pleasure in: to love music.
18. to need or require; benefit greatly from: Plants love sunlight.
19. to embrace and kiss (someone), as a lover.
20. to have sexual intercourse with.
–verb (used without object)
21. to have love or affection for another person; be in love.

2006-09-20 03:19:53 · answer #8 · answered by dark^wishy 4 · 0 0

it's when you and and your lover are both one in the same and just have a deep compassion for one another and it's that butterflies in your stomach feeling plus when your in love nothing else matter but the love of your life

2006-09-20 03:19:34 · answer #9 · answered by Twan180 2 · 0 0

If u love somebody it is true love but if u don't love somebody it is not love. there is no matter of true love or false love only u can love her or not love.

2006-09-20 03:15:35 · answer #10 · answered by kajalb 3 · 0 0

Commitment.

2006-09-20 03:16:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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