I was a little worried the gf might be losing interest (dating for @ 4-5 mos), but she has been working like a mad woman lately (2 jobs, probably 60+ hrs/wk, which concerns me a little, too) She is very proud of being very independent so I keep telling myself to just relax and let her come to me. We hit it off great, seriously unbelievably, but neither of us have much exp in the dating dept, and I know the romance has to start to simmer a little at some point. Does this sound reasonable? Any advice on trying to get her back into it or is it something I am f ing up? We had a talk the other night and she really revealed some stuff. If I plainly ask if her feelings have changed, that pretty much seals the deal regardless, doesn't it?
2006-09-19 19:40:50 · 5 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You still have one more try and the deal isn't sealed yet. When she is free, massage her back.. do sensual things to her that could spark things up again. Kiss every inch of her body, help her to unwind from all the hard work that she's been doing and make her feel good. Let her know that you admire that she has the drive to do what she does. (This is all only if you want to light the fire and continue dating.. hope it helps) If she has a night off which I doubt she does, it would be nice if the two of you went out and did something fun, you know.. dinner or something.. then you could do the things I said above after the fact to make it an even better night..
2006-09-19 19:44:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, firstly i have enough trouble maintaining a relationship and working one job. this needs to be taken into consideration especially how tired she must feel. you two need a date night once a week or once a month where you can spend time spoiling each other. firstly though you need to talk to her. just ask if she still loves you it doesn't have to seal the deal, but make sure you don't come off as defensive or accusing. you can't spend much time together so the main thing is to do really special things for each other like make her lunch or pick her up from work as a surprise.
2006-09-20 02:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax - WHY PUSH ? ARE U BORED CANT FIND OTHERS THINGS 2 KEEP U OCCUPIED WHY DOES YR ROMANCE HAVE 2 B ALL CONSUMING GO ON A HIKE BY YR SELF
2006-09-20 02:44:09 · answer #3 · answered by robert m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is the only one who can tell you how she feels or if something is wrong in your relationship. Good luck!!
2006-09-20 02:45:12 · answer #4 · answered by just me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very realistic approach
2006-09-20 02:44:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋