Guys, are you attracted to the "girl next door" type of lady?

Question

You know, cute, sweet, shy, innocent, etc...

Here is to miss knowitall....

What is wrong with my display pic? I am wearing a brazilian bikini...got a problem with that? And for your information, I am more of a girl next door type of girl then you think. Still a virgin (farthest I've gone is make out), and you know what? I'm actually proud of that. Plan on staying one till I marry too. Maybe you should get to know people before judging them, ok?

Answer 1

Yes, actually I prefer them myself. I don't prefer "painfully shy" girls, but a certain level of shyness is refreshing. I just see too many girls these days with no moral values or self-respect and I think its a real shame. Women should be proud of themselves and when they are I think it makes them stand out in the crowd. If a girl wants to slut around me well she can just keep on walking cause all shes gonna get here is a good lecture on self respect. I think it takes real confidence to go against the mainstream and that attacts me the most, so I am really proud of the few that I know like that! Women are a powerful force in this world. They control themselves, and in many respects, they control men. Its really true so women have a great responsibility there. They should set a good example for others to follow. Thanks, J

Answer 2

Are you kidding? Is this a real question or your attempt to get complements? I'm thinking the later.
Look guys are not the same as girls... Girls say they want the "good guy" but they always go after us "Bad Boys" We know it....
We like the hot girls, but we marry the good girls. The problem is they are never the same girl.
It's Gods way of evening out the playing field. There are three things that men are attracted to.... Looks, body, and personality. If a girl has great looks or a great body... They usually have a horrible attitude. If a girl doesn't have that great of a body or is not the best looking girl in the crowd then they will usually have a great personality. You know.. The old compensation for lacking thing. If you lose your sight you get better hearing....
So your assertion of do guys want a cute, sweet, shy, innocent girl..... Yes.. But she doesn't exist.
The saying goes... Guys want the Madonna in the public but the Whore in the private.... And I am talking about perpetual Mother Madonna, not the singer Madonna. The singer is... well lets face it...A whore. hahaha.

Since I saw you add your last little comment... I had to add this...
Don't let them dried up, crusty, old, bitties get to you.. They are just jealous. And women are catty. They will cut a good girl to shreds. Just to try and make themselves feel better.
I am really proud of you that you are remaining a virgin. That is incredible today. And as for the bitties.. And there haterid of your virginity.... think of it like this... You can be like them any time you want. But they can never again be like you. Again...jealous.
Keep up the sweetness. You will find a great guy out there.

Answer 3

The type you describe, or the one in your photo, yes. However, the "girl" next door to me is 57, is about 5' 3" and 240 lbs, and appears to have had only a passing acquaintance with soap or a brush since the Carter administration. So the real life "girl next door", not so much.

Answer 4

I would suggest that anyone on level 4 with a 15% top answer rate ought to add "outrageously smart" to the list.
The girl next door metaphor has more to do with growing up familiarity than personality as listed. More often than not we see such as either our first conquest or we don't see them at all.
The personality characteristics are easily overlooked - except for cute. A guy who has been around may pick up on them for a rest. Most likely it is the sweet, shy, innocent guy who will see and fall for such a girl.

Answer 5

Hell yes. No one with a lick of sense needs a barbie doll. The girl next door type is a classic and in high demand.

Answer 6

I was seriously attracted to the girl next door. But I thought better of it...because I did not want her to always knowing what I am doing.

Answer 7

"Girl next door" type I like. I don't have to go very far. Very much specially if she's cute, sweet and all the things you said.





Actually pretty much like the type in your pic there, sweetheart. ; )

Answer 8

For the most part, yes. If you were my "girl next door", I'd have to ponder the question for a while--and after a micro-second, I'd say, HELLLL YESSS!!!

Answer 9

There are only guys next door except for their mother and she is not my type. I am interested in most girls just not my neighbors' mothers.

Answer 10

im a girl who lives a couple houses down from a nut house so the "boy next door" type is psycho for me right, so i say, cheaya i like the boy next door type.