Cute men are the jerks, so does this mean women must date ugly men? Are women upset that they might have to date and marry ugly men and marry them and have kids? Thats awful.
2006-09-19 18:36:53 · 20 answers · asked by savannahfast 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well then go lesbian for crying out loud lol
2006-09-19 18:38:13 · answer #1 · answered by JO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that outer beauty is only skin deep and that will also go in time.
But the beauty that is within a person; lasts forever! Once you get to know the person's true being, you will look at him differently.
During High School, there was this guy that "all" the girls would drool over, he was very good looking, but 20 years later we bumped into him and didn't even recognize him! He was fat and bald, nothing like we remembered. Some of the guys that the girls wouldn't even give the time of day to; turned out to be successful business men who treat their wife's like queens!
This does not always happen, but for the most part it does. You see, when you appreciate what you have; you take care of it!
When you think you are the grates thing in the world, nothing is good enough for you.
Look for the beauty that is within and last forever, not only the outer, with time it will fade away.
2006-09-19 18:59:09 · answer #2 · answered by SAM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, no, if you are going to be all mean like that, I don't suppose you *have to* do anything, you could just become a nun and never date anyone ever again.....*lol* :p
Look. I know it is upsetting that the people who seem the most beautiful and attractive on the outside just don't often have the personality on the inside to match....where the ones who do have the personality also end up going through things in life that leave them looking, well, less than perfect. I know it sucks....I am saying this as one of those "ugly men", ok? Saying it because I get tired of having to *justify* to folks that yeah, once in a while I find myself attracted to "the beautiful people" myself...it isn't hypocrisy, it's human nature to be drawn towards people who are easy on the senses...
But. Looks really are only temporary at best. And they can change for the better too. Fat people can lose weight, the sloppy can clean up and get new clothes, the "stinky" can take more baths.....
But what can you do with someone who has no personality? Or worse yet, has absolutely *no* interests or likes or dislikes in common with you? Or worse yet, seems to be the *exact polar opposite* of everything you yourself believe in and hold dear?
See what I mean? If it were all about looks and instinct, we'd be butterflies, or hummingbirds. But we aren't. We ended up here, human, with minds for a reason.
That reason, is to make our *minds* better with each passing generation. If our minds are right and our will is good, *everything* else is possible. :) Everything.
So cheer up, smile, and try to look past the surface. Look for graceful *behavior* or beauty in one's voice or cuteness in one's eyes when he or she is doing something beloved?
Look for the beauty in what people are doing and saying and living, not just in their current coil of flesh and blood, ok?
You might be surprised by what you find, even if it takes a bit of work to find it. :)
2006-09-19 18:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by Bradley P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say no way at all if you think he is ok but you have a hart to tell you so & listen to it & see what it tell you. I think that you should not marry an ugly guy because it will not work & you would feel so bad latter & your kids mite not like him at all. I do know that some guys can be nice & you have to look for them & yes thay can be jerks I know I had one then dump him just for the way he acted dum.
2006-09-19 19:05:03 · answer #4 · answered by Thresa G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Just like anyone in life, you need to first define what you want in a lover. When you do that, you need to figure out what it will take to get him or her. If it means dating 10,000 men or women in the process before you find the one, so be it. Never compromise or settle for anyone less than you deserve.
Until you find Mr. or Ms. Right, have fun with a few Mr. or Ms. Wrongs. LOL
2006-09-19 18:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahahaha
well id rather date a ugly man than my exhusband who was a good looking jerk.
I dont think all nice men are ugly though. I think nice men are just very hard to come by now a days.
most men think its ok to be a sexist pig and hang out in strip clubs and watch porn and that their wives/girlfriends should be ok with it.
I refuse to be desperate enough to deal with those types any more and I really dont need any ugly ones either women should be comfortable on their own.
2006-09-19 18:41:00 · answer #6 · answered by knowitall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I'm a cute jerk and I wouldn't like that at all. It's much more fun to be with a cute jerk -- and on top of that do you want your kids to look like the elephant man? They might be smart seeing as that lots of ugly people are smart, but don't you want your kids to be cool?
2006-09-19 18:40:05 · answer #7 · answered by Benjamin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That song is true "If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, make an ugly woman your wife". Same for men. Personality is forever, looks are temporary. Love someone for who they are not what they look like.
2006-09-19 18:38:50 · answer #8 · answered by A. D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I assume by ugly you are referring to the outside. Seems like you have been dating the ones who are ugly inside?
2006-09-19 18:39:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kinds of guys are you dating? My boyfriend is hot, and is the sweetest guy I've ever met, I couldn't ask for anyone better. You just have to look, and you're not going to find a "good guy" that's attractive at a bar or sleezy places like that, because those are the assholes.
2006-09-19 18:44:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will more than likely notice the number of very attractive women with ugly men.
the reason is very simple.
the ugly men have money
2006-09-19 18:44:03 · answer #11 · answered by dirtyoldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋