ok, the facts. we have been comunicating through e-mail and snail mail for five years. he lives in europe. we finally got to meet a few months ago and had sex, hey we been comuicating for five years. its not like it was our first date. he gone back home and we still e-mail and write, actually even more. but now its not just sexy talk but he wants to know how i'm feeling. was i bad in bed and now he just wants to be friends? i'll go ahead and admit, i'm crazy about him. i've thought more than once about sharing a life with him, but i'm afraid i'm not as important to him as he is to me. i dont want to scare him off. this is making me nuts! the man is driving me batty! he's so got me wrapped around his finger, i hate that. i send him sexy pics of myself just to make him sufer. you know, he can look but cant touch. gets him everytime. we worry about each other. does this thing got a chance? will anything become of it? does he love me, or is it just a game to him?
2006-09-19 18:31:37 · 12 answers · asked by srsgrl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's from norway.we have the same beliefs, we share the same likes and dislikes. we are not officially bf/gf so i dont expect him to be celibete. i mean he lives an ocean away. for me its not just the sex. its him, wonderful, sweet, playful, him. its every little thing about him.
2006-09-19 19:10:21 · update #1
why don't you share you insecurities about the relationship with him? sorry i answered a question with a question. =\
2006-09-19 18:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by .LoveStoned. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you feel you're not important to him, gives me the picture that it's just lust. The feeling differs when you see the person in front of you, than when you just heard his voice or in mail. But five years is very long to know each other and developed a good foundation of any kind of ralationship. Try to ask him what he is really up to you, is it SEX only or a lifetime partner. Sometimes it's just guts we need... And study yourself as well... what do you really like about this man... you feel crazy about him because of his performance in bed or because you really love him. It's really confusing and you might get lost. Try to pray....as for signs.......it helps!!
2006-09-20 01:47:53 · answer #2 · answered by msgorgeous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it's got a chance. I think you are getting all worried about nothing. But as long as he is not Muslim..i think a western girl would have a difficult time with that. But otherwise it would be a great adventure to go for it.
2006-09-20 01:37:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 years...and he lives in europe. Oyyyee...you cant trust a guy like that to go without sex for that long. Its prolly a game, you better start seeing him or prolly even move in with him in europe.
2006-09-20 01:47:16 · answer #4 · answered by JO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya like those "Ant eaters" huh ?
2006-09-20 01:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
five years? i think he might love you.. that's a lot of time ya kno?
2006-09-20 02:33:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is love...go get it...atleast clearly express it once
2006-09-20 01:35:49 · answer #7 · answered by Max 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad boys bad boys
2006-09-20 01:46:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds more like lust.....
2006-09-20 02:01:48 · answer #9 · answered by Dusty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a bit of both.
2006-09-20 01:34:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋