It's not always the guy you know! When a relationship ends women always automatically label the guy an A hole and blame the whole thing on him to make herself feel better!!!
Which also begs the question, are all women of the emotional age of 12?!
2006-09-19 18:23:14 · 18 answers · asked by irishcharmer84 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's not usually anyone's "fault", women tend to do a lot of little things for guys because we like to and unfortunately we have a tendency to feel like we're being neglected, ignored, taken advantage of just because most guys don't do a lot of those little things for us, some do, that's great. unfortunately, you don't usually know what we like, that's nobody's fault either, but, of course we'd like to think that you can figure it ALL out for yourselves, not likely to happen, we're probably not going to tell you, if you ask what we like or if we want something, well, yes, but, we want to be surprised, so we're not going to tell you. we really do learn from birth how to make people comfortable, all the little things that can make you happy and we dole then out randomly, just because, you don't get that same training, it's inbred. it's a girl thing.
we're proud to be girls and be able to do all we can, we generally consider ourselves to be better at relationships, which is probably where you get the blame.
some girls really are not that emotionally equipped, we were daddy's little girl and he took care of us, or we have brothers who watch out for us, some girls want to be tough or at least appear tough, but they aren't. we say it's your fault and call you names because we didn't feel protected, cared for, emotionally secure. that's not your fault, unless you really were neglectful, disrespectful, and used someone.
you are only responsible for your actions and your own feelings, not ours.
2006-09-19 18:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by gelfin1028 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well because it generally is the guys fault - sad but true. Not always but most of the time. As far as the emotional age of 12 -- you are just being rude. That is not a very mature or classy thing to even say in the first place. There are mature and immature men and women. Its not fair to generalize the couple of women you have come into contact with.
2006-09-20 01:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by sassysharli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer 1: I'm sorry about YOUR luck dude but the guy isn't always blamed.
Answer 2: No all women aren't all at the emotional age of 12 although you sound like an emotional 12 year old girl with your whining. I don't know maybe people just resort to being preteen girls when they feel that they are being treated unfairly.
2006-09-20 01:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by Vee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
In other words, females make decisions on and rely on their emotions. I'm not saying they don't think, I'm just saying that females will take the emotional answer over the logical one every time, hands down, no contest in the relationship context. Females "think" completely different from men. Just don't take any of their guff when they do. Just know you are the one in the right and take solace in that fact. Find a better woman!
2006-09-20 01:38:23 · answer #4 · answered by maledude2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because putting the blame on you (guys) makes us feel better and just basically the whole man hating thing takes over and belive it or not sometimes it really is your fault. And guys are at the emotional age of 2.
2006-09-20 01:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by kim_banning84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude! Sounds like you have something dieing that smells. You may notice a parallel here:
A. Girls "automatically" label the guy/gblame...to feel better.
b) Are all women....label age of 12...to feel better.
2006-09-20 01:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
probably because the guy doesn't know how to handle the girl's emotions and doesn't understand what she's asking for.
emotional age of 12, I'd say it really depends on the woman but yes woman are very emotional and get depressed easily.
2006-09-20 01:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by haseen_gudiya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bitter are we? Get over it. When women get together and discuss their relationship failures they rarely take blame for their failures. Best way is not worry about it. Get busy finding someone and making another woman happy. It is her loss not yours. Utilize your time better than worrying about a bunch of women getting together and having an estrogen overload. LOL
2006-09-20 01:30:25 · answer #8 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know dude, eventhough it's obviously not your fault, females still blame you. It's the same thing around too. I mean you see both males and females go around and talk sh*it about eachother when they relationship is over. The only explanation that I have is what it called "Self Exceptance". I mean let's put it this way, her friend gonna ask her:" So what's wrong with you and him?", ofcourse she's not gonna say it's her fault, or she's stuck up or whatever reasons... same thing with the guy.. you know what i mean?
2006-09-20 01:28:52 · answer #9 · answered by Tank D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actualy its because the men are well acting needy and despirate and acting like wussbags which isent attractive . Its also because guys blame the girl and visa versa eveyone has a different story . Whoes right well in your mind your right and in her mind shes right so lets just say were all di** H***s .
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2006-09-20 01:32:47 · answer #10 · answered by badass-mofu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋