Sometimes I feel unsure what to talk about. I don't want to seem boring...
2006-09-19 18:18:49 · 14 answers · asked by FeverLust 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends who you are talking with. Personally I like a guy that knows about current and controversial issues that you can discuss and talk about. So it is always a good idea to read the news and know what is happening around you. In addition, making good jokes and sarcastic comments is always a good way to have a good time with someone. Don’t talk too much about yourself because it can get boring and you can be seen as cocky. Personally I like the mystery and I don't want to know everything about you the first day I meet you. We like mysterious guys… so make it mysterious.. that’s always fun. Also, always ask a girl a lot of questions about themselves; we love to be the center of attention!
2006-09-19 18:37:54 · answer #1 · answered by Ale D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, a more sensitive conversation is always enjoyable. always remember that women in general, wants to have the best attention that they can get . Meaning, always try to make her feel especial and interesting. You can start by asking every possible things about her...hobbies....likes...dislikes....favorites....and so on. In doing that, you are not only giving her attention but knowing her and letting the conversation more and more interesting because in return, she will ask the same. Always put some humor on it, don't be very serious in asking things. Make it flow naturally with relax environment.
2006-09-20 01:31:34 · answer #2 · answered by Bartypurple lass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend, to have an interesting conversation, you gotta be an interesting person first. For example, say like,"I'm a professional baseball player" or "I'm a stock broker" lol. I don't know. If she does something interesting, talk about that too.
and women respond when you respond.
If she says,"I'm so tired..." or "It's a beautiful day outside"just respond with anything, don't just nod your head and not say anything. She'll respond when you respond.
GOOD LUCK!!
2006-09-20 01:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by Leonardo M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a serious type of person, so I like conversations which deals about life and philosophy... Or maybe, some things where I can learn. I don't like lies... but I like compliments.
2006-09-20 01:27:46 · answer #4 · answered by loreena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like the girl just ask about her.. girls like that. If you are asking about her then she knows that you are interested in her. From fav color, fsav flower (this may be useful to know later) to family life, best friends, goals in life. Good luck!
2006-09-20 01:44:25 · answer #5 · answered by sassysharli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the key to being a good conversationalist is being a good listener. then ask questions about what you hear. listen, then make a comment. for example "really? that happened to me too. (etc, etc...)" then if she looks like she wants to cut in, let her. then when you have something to say, wait for a pause and cut in again.
2006-09-20 01:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by miss advice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With husband: Personal bedroom conversation.
With anyone: Anything under the sky that i can understand.
2006-09-20 01:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by Raven Hood® 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her about the things she's interested in. Try to find a common interest, talk about that. Also, get to know her, ask her about herself, and really pay attention, show her that you're really interested in what she has to say. And please, don't spend the whole date talking about yourself.
2006-09-20 01:27:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
current affairs, the last movie you saw, a good book you read.
Let her lead the conversation and give intelligent and thoughtful answers.
2006-09-20 01:22:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stories!! We love to listen to every word u guys say.. be it a funny experience, ghostly experience, scary ones, out-of-the-head crappy ones... just say it! Of cos, personally, i love to laugh at my guy friend's funny experiences... it just tickles me and i'm starting to fall in love with him already....
2006-09-20 01:26:13 · answer #10 · answered by AL75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋