My dad told this to me mom."Do not tell me anything about your son or daughter. I don't care about them anymore. I don't care whether they catch a disease, and that they are my own children, or even when they die. I never want to see them in my life and I never want to hear from them again. I don't want to see them in my deathbed and I do not want them to visit me on my tombstone. To me they are dead and in the past and I have my future with my new wife and the baby in her stomach."
My dad is the biological father of 3 children (including me). The woman that he secrety got married to brainwashed him to think that my brother wasn't his because they didn't have the same fingers and toes. She also told him that his own children do not love him. In response my dad believed her and disowned his own children (both of whom are minors) and also his other relatives. He threatened my mom that he wouldn't pay child support for my brother and my sister. I am the eldest and emotionally stressed.
2006-09-19 17:59:24 · 10 answers · asked by molokaigirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i wouldn't waste my time worrying about it. instead, focus on the people who do love and accept you for who you truly are. making your life worth living is the best revenge against someone who is stupid enough to think that you are worthless.
2006-09-19 18:03:57 · answer #1 · answered by miss advice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first things first. tell your mam to put in for child support. let the court sort that out.
secondly. no-one knows what the future may hold if your dad has taken it upon his self to disown all of you including his family then its his loss. in time your mother may meet a new man. then you will have a father figure BUT as for your dad, as people say any one can be a dad it takes a special person to be a father.
2006-09-20 01:13:56 · answer #2 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't blame your fathers wife ,he has a brain of his own ,its sad but some parents just don't love their children as they should and it is his fault not yours ,my ex said something similar to me about my children but he was sorry after about 2 years and got over the divorce.He is being a selfish jerk ,and all I can say is write and tell him how much he has hurt you ,not how bad he is but how you feel ,do this for your self not to get him to change but so you can heal .and then stick with the rest of your family and have a good life despite him.
2006-09-20 03:37:24 · answer #3 · answered by stephanie n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the new wife is a few fries short of a happy meal..She is stupid and your father is even more stupid for believeing her nonesense..He will grow up one day but i wouldn't look for that day to come anytime soon..You need to NOT stress out about it ..ignore him and he will eventually come around...His wife needs to be told that DNA and not the way your toes grow is what tells if a child is his or not ..She sounds like a real twit..Don't worry about what she says cuz she isn't worth it...
2006-09-20 04:19:37 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry that he would say that..what a looser..if he thinks he can call himself a man..he is totally wrong..you and your sister brother and Mom do not need him and his crap...(I think he said those things to make it easier to leave)..what he said to you turn it around you shouldn't care ..when he grows up let him grovel for your forgiveness...my ex doesn't pay child support we have done fine if not way better than we were with him..(I know) you don't need him..
2006-09-20 01:08:50 · answer #5 · answered by Ken and Wendy M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be emotionally stressed. This is wretched stuff. Ugly stuff.
Realistically, you don't have the power to enact any curse. This deserves one to help you get through some of the anger and keep yourself together.
Try this: Only God can damn. Actions and not people are damnable. Thus: God damn my dad's insensitivity. God damn my dad's hurting mom. etc. You won't want to keep this for life, but try it on now while you are helping everyone work through all the pain.
If you want, Email me your name and I'll put you on my "hot zone" prayer list.
2006-09-20 01:08:20 · answer #6 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough situation sounds like you dad has alot of mental problems hang in there stay strong he will get what is coming to him and the pain he is going to feel will be ten times as bad as what you feel
2006-09-20 01:09:53 · answer #7 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your 'dad' is such a weakling that he lets his girlfriend brainwash him he is surely not worth worrying over. Just regard him as someone with a problem that you cannot do anything about, therefore it is not YOUR problem. It is certainly not worth getting stressed over, just forget about him.
2006-09-20 01:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by Courage 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not worth your sufferment. He is a bad man and he does not deserve fathering any children.
2006-09-20 01:05:27 · answer #9 · answered by Mother of three 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie....look at it as i do.........he is nothing more than a sperm donor!!!.....he can live his miserable existance missing out on probably the best thing he ever did in life....but that is not on YOU ...OR your fault!....but trust you me.....if there is any loot after he croaks.....you can DAMNED well better believe i am fighting for my birth right!!!.....ciao bella....SISTAS are doing it for themselves!!!..xo...cheer up!...YOU are wonderful!
2006-09-20 01:08:05 · answer #10 · answered by lawumun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋