Lesbian Soccer Mom?

Question

I am a single mom and my daughter plays on a soccer team. I made friends with another single mom and really enjoy being with her a lot!
Her and her daughter have stayed over a few times, the last time after we put our daughters to bed we had a bottle of wine and watched a movie on the couch. we started cuddling, which lead to soft kissing which lead to undressing. and ended up in my bedroom.

The whole thing was wonderful!!!!

The question is I have never been with a woman before, should I go down this path? will it confuse my daughter? will my family kill me?

What do you think?

I know the kids were asleep

Answer 1

To be honest I think you're a dude getting his rocks off by pretending to be his fantasy.

Answer 2

Soccer Mom Lesbian

Answer 3

If the whole thing was wonderful then you need to please your heart. You need to live your life like there is no tomorrow, have fun tell the kids at a later date get to know this mother if you see that it will work then take the step of telling the kids n family. don't rush and let them know as yet because it might be a mistake or it might be the drinks so make sure this is what you want then so for it. YOU are getting older not young so have fun - good luck

Answer 4

I think you have some serious issues, put your daughter first before yourself, especially before lustful desires. Isn`t your daughter more important than sex? Your headed down a dead end road if you decide to procede with that type of behavior. Someone will get hurt, most likely your daughter. If she found out she would be devistated most likely, then you two would have trust issues on top of everything else. She might even be imbarrased in front of her friends to. Give your life to Jesus Christ, and make a real relationship with him and your daughter. The love Christ has for you is eternal, and unconditional. Stop hurting him by doing these things. Open your eyes, your heart, and your mind to him, you won`t be sorry. This is the best advice you will ever get, one day you will know that I spoke the truth to you. God Bless.

Answer 5

If anything keep it to yourself for now. If you had a goodtime then you go girl. There is nothing wrong with being gay. As long as you don't freak out if your daughter goes gay when she get's older. If you have kids and doing soccer and all I'm sure your old enough to know what right decision to make. As far as family, it's your life and you only live once. I have a friend that was married for over 20some years and now she's gay. The family will freak out and no I'm sure they wont kill you. They'll get over it. If you like her and that's your sexual prefernce then go for it girl. But make sure its what you really want before you tell your daughter anything. You don't wanna tell her one day that your gay and then the next day that your straight. That'll confuse her. Good Luck to you :)

Answer 6

I think that you should do what makes you happy. If you want to be with this woman, then do it. I wish I could have the courage to take that step with a woman. Your family should support you no matter who you love. If you explain things to your daughter, then she should be ok with it too. There are alot of gay/lesbian parents in the world. It will be difficult for you and you will probably face some prejudice for it, but life is too short to live by someone else's rules. Be happy with whoever can make you happy and let everyone else adjust to it.

Answer 7

you had sex with your daughter's friend's mom while they were both in the house??? that is wrong. im ok with lesbians and all but when the friend and your daughter were both there at the same time...jesus christ you should know better. i dont know how old your daughter is but kids dont go to sleep when they are supposed to on sleepovers. that was very irresponsible of you and i think that you should really think if you are lesbian or not cus yes that would really f*ck up a family, and put your daughter in a kinda traumatized state. wut would you think if your mom had sex with your best friends mom?

Answer 8

Hey, what ever makes you happy! It doesn't really matter what anyone else thinks, it's your life. Not theirs. Sit down with your daughter when you're ready to discuss it with her and tell her your feelings. I'm sure she will understand. Just talk to this other woman first. As for your family, that's up to you when/if you tell them. Eventually they will know. It's how you tell them that is what you need to decide. Best of luck to you!

Answer 9

I think it sounds like it could be a wonderful, fulfilling relationship! Good luck with it! Teach tolerance in multiple contexts, and your daughters will grow to understand. :)

Answer 10

Just talk to the other woman about it, no need to let your daughter know about it right away.

Answer 11

wow,i have to start by saying i liked that story,very exciting.its up to you how you want to leave impression on your kids,you could stay in closet until they get older,they will probably be more adult and be understanding.as far as everybody else,if you dont want your kids to know nobody else should be aware either,but when you tell kids im sure youll decide who else should know also.any chance you need a pivot man?haha.