See i like this girl, but (i dont know this for a fact yet) but she's no longer a virgin. As a young man of God, it it worng for me to be interested if it was only ONE time and she's trying to live for God now?
2006-09-19 16:56:43 · 14 answers · asked by ivegotquestions_uvegotanswers 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Maybe she can help you get over the hump........
2006-09-19 17:03:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if God can Love and forgive someone's sins, we sure better be able to according to his own written word.
The only time I would tell my sons or daughter to stay away from someone is if they are living "of the world" and see no need to repent and turn from their sins and weaknessess.
God never said we were damaged merchandise, that is mans opinion and Gods will trumps mans every time.
Go to the story of Rahab in the old testament. She was an active prostitute. She believed in God and helped the spies escape the city. In return they spared her life and that of her family.
God then blessed her even more, she married into the Israelites and even bore the son that was in the line of Salvation. She was definately not a virgin and her profession tells us that it wasnt only once.
2006-09-19 17:13:38 · answer #2 · answered by cindy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this day and age, you're going to have a hard time finding a girl who's a virgin. Don't judge her--your God's the one who does that, right? And at least she's being honest with you.
2006-09-19 17:00:54 · answer #3 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though it would be nice to be with someone who has saved themselves for marriage, the reality is that alot of us have made mistakes in the past. I would think it would be good enough that someone has turned their heart to God than worry about their virginity.
2006-09-19 18:39:28 · answer #4 · answered by Reuben Shlomo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she repented and she accepts it as something wrong and you are both christians then it is ok....just date and see if she really loves the Lord and she can see if you really love the Lord too. God forgives.... if you believe this than realize God rememebers our sins no more when we confess them
2006-09-19 17:02:26 · answer #5 · answered by storge07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't judge her. Everyone has their past, their mistakes. Its her life. It depends on how you feel about. If it upsets you, then don't go out with her. There are plenty of virgins out there..you just got to find them.
2006-09-19 17:14:41 · answer #6 · answered by PROLADY 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Her sins have been forgiven and you should not dwell on the past nor should you get opinions on here that will just hurt you.
2006-09-19 17:04:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My biggest worry would be losing your virginity to a non-virgin, then having her walk out on you, or you on her.
II think Adam & Eve probably thought "Well, just this once" also, and look what happened to them.
2006-09-19 17:00:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't judge her based on her past. You're not supposed to judge. It's in the bible.
2006-09-19 17:00:29 · answer #9 · answered by Maria Isabel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's okay dude. She'll feel like a virgin if you put it in her butt.
2006-09-19 17:09:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Grow up and get on with it.
2006-09-19 18:25:06 · answer #11 · answered by brainstorm 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋