I don't know any other Christian who really seems to be trying to live for God. They watch things they shouldn't watch, talk like they shouldn't talk...I mean, basically they're good people, but they don't seem to be trying. I feel so out of place anymore, and I feel so lonely. I know I make mistakes, and I'm not perfect, but I still try. Whenever I try to talk to other Christians about this, they say, "We're all human, and we're all going to sin." I understand this, but they seem to be hiding behind that rather than trying to make things right. It's gotten to the point that I feel like I have to make a choice: continue living the way I know God wants me to live, yet feel lonely or start giving in here and there just so I fit in with everyone else. I know what the right thing to do is, but each day it's becoming harder and harder to make the right decision. I just need some good, Christian advice.
2006-09-19 16:46:24 · 27 answers · asked by my_pen_name 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Christ said the world hated me before it hated you. Remember that always.
2006-09-19 16:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay strong!! Jesus never said being a Christian was easy, he said it would be anything but. I wish I could give you a Bible verse right now but I can seem to think of it.
It is hard to be different, the thing that I try to do is, with my clothes -- I make sure that if I met Jesus today I wouldn't have to go home and change. And when I speak I try to act like I am talking to my pastor (it helps me watch my words).
Another thing is try to surround yourself with Christians. Or find a Christian you admire and speak with them for advice. Watch what media you are taking in as it can influence you. You are doing great don't give up!!!!!
2006-09-19 23:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Listen friend, when your standing on the sea of glass and you get that first glimpse of Jesus, it would have all been worth staying faithful to him in your life.
Take alook at these few verses.
Jud 1:24 Now unto him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy,
Jesus can make you sinless.
Rev 14:12 Here is the patience of the saints: here are they that keep the commandments of God, and the faith of Jesus.
The people who are saved in the end keep all of the commandments of God, and the faith of Jesus. In other words they allow Jesus to work on their lives the new covenant, which allows them to live sinless in the presence of God.
Jesus gained the victory over sin for you, when you are born again and converted, you will abhor sin as you realise what sin did to Jesus.
It takes time, it is a journey, and you will probably fall along the way. But remember we have a faithful and high priest at the right hand of God who will forgive you, but continuing in sin willingly is not Christian. We shouldn't be watching sinful things on TV, or even watching movies at all as they are 'lies'
Rev 22:15 For without are dogs, and sorcerers, and whoremongers, and murderers, and idolaters, and whosoever loveth and maketh a lie.
Remember what sin is
1Jo 3:4 Whosoever committeth sin transgresseth also the law: for sin is the transgression of the law.
1Jo 3:5 And ye know that he was manifested to take away our sins; and in him is no sin.
1Jo 3:6 Whosoever abideth in him sinneth not: whosoever sinneth hath not seen him, neither known him.
IF we surrender to Jesus, we can truely be without sin!!!
God Bless!!!
2006-09-19 23:57:52 · answer #3 · answered by Sky_blue 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please don't give in--your heart is in the right place. Live a holy and separated life before God, and he will bless you. Read the Psalms, there's plenty of instances that King David felt the same way. But hang in there, and God will make a way for you. As cliche as it might sound, there is a light at the end of the tunnel--"he will turn your mourning into dancing" (Psalm 30:11). Also read Psalm 37, it's God's promise to you. Don't hesitate to send me a message if you need anything!
Father God, in the name of Jesus I come to you on behalf of your servant. Your word says that those who hunger and thirst for righteousness' sake will be filled--I thank you for this person's willingness to make a stand for You! Bless your servant with a church family that believes in holiness, and Christian friends that are on fire for You! May Your will be done. Amen.
2006-09-20 00:18:43 · answer #4 · answered by from_glory2glory 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you're going through such a tough time right now. It sounds like these people that you're talking with aren't really true Christians otherwise they wouldn't be hiding behind these excuses they're making. Are you going to Church? If these people are from the Church you're going to maybe you need to change to another Church. One in that you will feel welcome and that you also feel comfortable talking to the Pastor. The Pastor and Assistant Pastor are trained to counsel people in many ways. Having a Church family can really fill a void in your life.
Don't give up hope. Please don't give into the feelings of giving in to belong. You belong to Christ and Christ only.
Surround yourself with people that won't judge you, but will bring you up and help you and maybe you can help them in their daily Christian lives. Remember you are never alone. Jesus is always with you. I know it may not feel like it, but He is.
2006-09-20 00:07:17 · answer #5 · answered by angelcat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what? you are absolutely right. Except I am one of the other people. I watch things I shouldnt watch and talk like I shouldn't. I hide behind "im human and sin'. I have always wished I could be like you. I think its a gift. God will give it to anyone who wants it , I guess I just havent commiteed myself to it enough. I envy that you can be lonely in the christian world because you are the way you are, when I feel the opposite. I feel that I cant fit into the Christain/ church world because I am just not "good" and as holy as they are. I pray and love the Lord with all my heart, but I feel like a miserable failure. I cannot believe you have a hard time finding at lease people in your church. I never feel like I fit in with the people in my church. I feel unworthy all the time. Please dont cave. You are the one that God will say "well done thou good and faithful servant" , dont throw that away to fit in. I feel like a christian failure. Please pray for me.
2006-09-19 23:52:56 · answer #6 · answered by Coco 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No matter what anyone around you does or says, you should live how you know is right. You should also try to talk to your Christian friends about their life, and offer advice to help them improve. The Bible says if your brother makes a mistake talk to him about it in private. If he refuses any of your help, them take it to the church, which in our modern world be your pastor, sunday school teacher, or another Christian adult you can trust.
2006-09-19 23:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by penguinluvinman 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, you can't look to man, because man will always let you down. Second, live how Jesus told you to, because in the end, when you're standing in front of God and being held responsible for your actions, what are you going to say? "Sorry, God, I decided fitting in was more fun than living how you told me to. Yes, I realize I probably could have turned to you and let you take care of me, be my friend in my time of lonliness, and perhaps guide me to a good church, but it was just easier to fit in with these people I knew I shouldn't be following..."
You should read Ryan Dobson's "Be Intolerant" it's a quick one hour read and it will really help you i think. hang in there. you never know how big of a difference you might be making in these people's lives because you're living right. Jesus did say the road would be narrow and few would find it...don't surround yourself with people you know are sinning and doing wrong, but don't judge them so that you feel like you're a better person that they are. because that's sinning just like they are.
hope that helps! Good luck! Jesus loves you!
2006-09-19 23:51:19 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Please understand this for to me you sound confused. I do not know who is teaching you about the bible but I believe that they too are confused and giving you mis-leading information. First if you are a Christian the you should have a moral code to live by and any decision that you make using that moral code will be a decent one. So that is one worry gone. As for you feeling depressed then ask God, in Jesus name to relieve you of this burden of depression and it will be done period. I am sure that other things are going on in your life that you are not sharing with us, but it is ok just share it with our farther and the answers will be forthcoming your faith should assure you of that. Until then I will remain your in the faith. Be well..............................
2006-09-20 00:01:30 · answer #9 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter about other people let them make their own mistakes and you will never feel lonely in the house of God. If you have God you will never be lonely because he is with you every step of the way.
2006-09-19 23:51:21 · answer #10 · answered by jeanqueen3 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I am trying to live for God. but I am not perfect I make mistakes.
and I have been having trouble with my faith. and tonight I now know why. people can't stop Judging other people.
Hope you feel better. but please don't Judge other Christians or anyone else for that matter. now I am going to go and try to be the perfect Christian.
2006-09-20 00:28:30 · answer #11 · answered by Proud Mommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋