I am gay, but very bored/disillusioned with gay men. I will probably never have a partner because gay men usually bug me -- even though I myself am gay! (Believe me, this is not uncommon.) Should I try dating women?
2006-09-19 16:37:41 · 15 answers · asked by uncle 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can tell you that it does happen. I'm a straight woman and my best friend is a gay man. We have the best times together and no matter what lousy relationship we find ourselves in we always know that we are there for each other. We've both been through some rough relationships, but ours goes on through thick and thin. Why? Because we love each other no matter what, and we can't seem to find that loyalty in a boyfriend.
Find yourself a gal-pal and enjoy life. I'm not saying date straight women unless you are honest with them and they are okay with that. Enjoy your life and friends, relax about the relationship thing and take your time.
Good luck.
2006-09-19 16:51:26 · answer #1 · answered by bjodiver 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hummm good question. I would have to say no. But that would be just me. I know of a few women that I used to run around with that were into bi or gay men. According to them, the men were better in bed, and didn't have the hang ups straight men had. Now married gay men? I have not a clue.
2006-09-19 23:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by misstigeress 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to find a woman that will trust you not to go back to a gay man. Then you have to find a woman that will understand that you were gay. If you still are gay then you are Bi so you have to find a woman that will understand that you are bi. But then you have to know whether or not this woman want to settle down in the future so you can't stray out the relationship. So first you have to find out who you really are, and then proceed in finding a soul mate for yourself.
2006-09-19 23:42:24 · answer #3 · answered by sweetlee725 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe some, if you're bi. Just be honest and tell them you're bi (if you really feel you might love them). Just don't date a poor gal because you don't want any commitment with a guy.
I don't think that a woman would date a guy that's gay. Maybe going one or twice, or be friendly, yes, but date and marry? I doubt it. And if you're gay, you're going at some point to be frustrated and seek a male partner, thus being unfaithfull to your wife. Unless your gf/wife accepts, or is attracted, to you being bi, don't date a girl.
well, that's my advice, I don't really want to run your life, just give you this advice.
2006-09-19 23:42:54 · answer #4 · answered by Roberto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they do.... I have a friend who married a man who everyone thinks is gay... but we are not for sure. They have been married for about 8 years now and have actually had sex 2 times. Their relationship is about companionship....So yes, I do think it is possible. You need to be up front with any woman you date.
2006-09-19 23:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by ru.barbie2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should sincerely pray that God frees you from these gay feelings - You don't like the life style - so pray for God to help you let go of it and have normal feelings for a woman. I personally have a close friend who was in your situation and praying to Jesus really turned the situation around and he was completely freed from his former gay lifestyle and now he is very happy and in love with his wife and kids. God Bless.
2006-09-19 23:43:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are gay and you know you are gay, don't date women.
Maybe gay men bug you because your not gay, it would seem most gay men don't have issues with gay men as a concept.
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2006-09-19 23:40:15 · answer #7 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are serious, make sure you are honest from the start. It isn't fair to either of you if you enter into a relationship of any kind without her knowing the score.
2006-09-19 23:41:59 · answer #8 · answered by StLMom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Said the little worm to the little lamb....do you hear what I hear....do you hear what I hear. Women do not date gay men knowingly.
2006-09-19 23:39:59 · answer #9 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely can, just be honest about who you are. You'll find a hag and she'll be the next best thing for you.
2006-09-19 23:40:05 · answer #10 · answered by Pak M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋