I've known this guy for 6 years. We have been in and out of touch for those 6 years. I remember what we did then and what we talk about now. It sounds as if he is ready to settle down, but he acts as if he is weighing his options(what options I don't know). I am a unique woman. There is none other like me, so why does he feel he has to put me to the test to see if I'm the best? I waited before, but I'm not waiting anymore, How do I know if he is the one? Do I wait again or just keep movin' on. Although I know I will choose what is best for me it's always great to know someone is listening and on your side at times. Answers are greatly appreciated and read.
2006-09-19 16:37:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a case of men being men. Well, all I can say is just be yourself there is no need to change or do anything differently. If he is, like you said, 'weighing his options'. After he has done so sufficiently he will come to you. You don't have to wait while he's weighin either.
2006-09-19 16:42:31 · answer #1 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's ready to settle down and he wants you, he would have asked you by now. If he's still weighing options, that means he's not sure with you, because men act when they want something. I strongly suggest you not to wait. Ask him about your relationship/ his feelings or thoughts. If it's the same with you, then it solves the waiting problem. If it's not the same, move on. Don't be afraid to express your feelings, this is after all your life.
2006-09-20 00:17:44 · answer #2 · answered by Akai 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go ahaead and find someone that will tell you, and love you for you
2006-09-19 23:42:58 · answer #3 · answered by Big D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋