Does a fit body really matter? nice eyes? big package? a guy with money? Why be shallow ladies?
2006-09-19 16:33:44 · 25 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not all women are shallow cuz some look in how the guy respects her and treats her right!
2006-09-19 16:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are the same way at times. Does big boobs, long legs, long hair and blue eyes really matter? why be so shallow guys? But I think on some level both sexes want the best of everything. I mean I may say I want a certain look or body type for a guy, does not necessarily mean that I'll ever get a guy like that. But its just an ideal, not a set standard. I mean my husband or any woman's husband can be someone far from what they say they like. But I think guys won't have that happen, they would by pass the average woman to go for ms. stacked 2006 any day of the week and still expect her to have an personality.
2006-09-19 23:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are part of the attraction, if there is no attraction what is the point? Money & big package doesn't matter. A good personality helps a lot. If you think women are shallow then why don't you date men?
2006-09-19 23:43:45 · answer #3 · answered by playtime 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ladies want a man who can take care of themselves and her and any kids you may have between the two of you . ladies look at the long term as far as money goes . Would you date a bum off the street ? looks matter only intially .When you get to know someone it becomes more about personality , but would you screw a sumo wrestler chick ? big package that isn't that important you can have a stick but you'd better know how to work it and how to pleez a lady . if she goes down on you, you had better return that favor. A lot of married chicks won't go down , cuz they have earned the right not to . After all its some ones gentials not always the most pleasant of places. If guys expect chicks to shave guys should too.
2006-09-19 23:44:14 · answer #4 · answered by primamaria04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most women are shallow cause they have been hurt to many times by men who promise to always be there no matter what but then truns around and cheats on the lady. This can go both ways for some men are shallow as well. again this goes back to its all a psychology thing. and it depends on who the person is.
2006-09-19 23:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by angie c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women are shollow but if that is your impression, maybe you attract only shallow women.
Looks never mattered to me. It was always the character of the person that mattered.
Remind your shallow ladies that they would be terribly disappointed to know that the hunk of a man they married would develop a potbelly after a few years of togetherness.
2006-09-20 00:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by Erize Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA HA HA HA...Thats hysterical to stereotype like that and if thats the case pleeeeeezzzz help me for I must not be a lady. Money...we dont have that. Body...my husband has a nice body but hes not going to win any contest. Nice eyes...yes big package doesnt matter if you dont know how to use it. Maybe your problem is how you perceive yourself and not us women at all.
2006-09-19 23:38:51 · answer #7 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, personal experience has taught me that they usually only care about the money. The rest, like looks, is just a "bonus." I don't think many women would stay long with a guy who has no money, even if he's super handsome. If guys like Brad Pitt or Johnny Depp were destitute and never famous, they probably wouldn't get much attention. Women go nuts over money and power.
2006-09-19 23:42:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of these things matter to me when it comes to a man. o matter how nice your body is, that can change in the blink of an eye. Money doesn't last forever, and you can't take it with you when you die. Life is short and love is hard to find. When I was looking for a husband, I wanted a man who would love me for me, not try to change me, would be willing to work hard with me to build a life together, and who could make me laugh. Everything material and superficial in life can change so fast, the love is what gets you through all of the tough times.
2006-09-20 00:03:47 · answer #9 · answered by cowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't believe i'm even dignifying this unfounded generalization with a response, but i'm bored. first, if what you say is true, WHERE IN THE HELL ARE ALL THE GOOD LOOKING GUYS!!!! are they hidden away & only let out late at night? it's a very rare occasion to see a good looking guy, especially one who's not gay, married, or an asshole. second, i've known several good looking guys with severe narcissistic issues-never looking away from the mirror long enuf to see anyone else. third, if this is how you see the women that you're in contact with, you really need to get a new hangout.
2006-09-19 23:52:55 · answer #10 · answered by jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋