I have certains ones in mind......... I know I've already asked this, but I wasn't happy w/ the answer I got....... But, seriously, I need help!!!!!!!!!!!!!! please help me!!!!
2006-09-19 16:28:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a guy, and I have a lot of friends who are guys. We love attention, and especially intelligent girls that may even know guy stuff, like sports. Don't be afraid of any guy. Even if you just say "Hi" and smile as he walks by you, he will think about you sometime during the day. Don't be intimidated, because you will end up this way forever and think what could have been.
2006-09-19 16:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by Special J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Steps:
1. Approach the guy. Remember that eye contact and a gentle smile are crucial in appearing friendly.
2. Enter the conversation with a compliment, then introduce yourself. Try not to be too cute with your delivery.
3. Talk. You'll get a strong sense of whether or not, he would be willing to give you a phone number. If there's no eye contact or smile coming your way, and you're really making a solid effort, then maybe you should abort the mission.
4. Ask for the number. Try not to be pushy, and show respect for the person's private information. Avoid "how about giving me your number?" and go with "It would be great to get to know you better. Is there a number where I can reach you?"
5. Offer your own phone number after getting his, if you feel comfortable doing so. Do this even if the guy denies giving you his since some guys are not comfortable with giving out their numbers.But who cares, it's worth tring my step.Remember, there are alot of fishes in the ocean.One more thing, confront in a mature way, not sexy or seductively.
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2006-09-19 23:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remove your top, that should do the trick! Seriously, it can be difficult, we guys sometimes don't get the clue or aren't assertive enought to follow up on the green light. Don't hesitate to be the one to ask HIM out. I've had that happen quite a few times and have been flattered by the girl being the agressor. Go get em'!
2006-09-19 23:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by babalu2 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be yourself and the guys who notice may well be worth it, because they will be the ones willing to accept the real you and not try to make you the person they want you to be. Stay strong, and continue being yourself.
2006-09-19 23:37:39 · answer #4 · answered by tyrone n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...when i want a guy to notice me...i pretend that i don't notice him. i defend him and be nice to him. "love taps"...it's not all about boobs out. but.....they for sure will notice you then. i get that allllllll the time. be super nice and laugh a lot so he can see you're nice from afar with your friends
2006-09-19 23:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by trish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
errr u want specific guys to like u? well since its a specific, id say find out what they like which means u may have to buddy buddy them a lil and see what they like that u either have or can incorporate to draw them to u.
2006-09-19 23:34:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be you, may be is the cloth you wear and personality. man need to see to feel that you are approachable.
2006-09-19 23:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what honey dont worry about it. Men arent worth it. I havent met one yet that is.
2006-09-19 23:35:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be really mean to the guys you like.
2006-09-19 23:33:21 · answer #9 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why dont you try to be less noticeable...its your cool that gets noticed, then you. good luck.
2006-09-19 23:31:46 · answer #10 · answered by mcharmd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋