Really I want to know how I should act around her, She seems nice but I am 9 years younger than her,
2006-09-19 16:27:04 · 31 answers · asked by Stvargo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I was 32 I went out with a 22 year old. You need to relax. If she wasn't interested in the real you, the two of you wouldn't be going out. I enjoyed his company simply because he was genuine. Just have fun!
2006-09-19 16:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well frist i have to say i am 32 and i would never go out with 23 yr old. now with that said and done,
since you are in this relationship with a 32 yr old, you must take in heart that this person has seen more than you will ever know and there for this person knows more than you. why don't u be your self. just yourself, if she really likes you then all is fine if not then all is lost, if she can't except you for who u are then u don't need her anyway.
2006-09-19 23:33:28 · answer #2 · answered by angie c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in my 30s and can't imagine this working out long term, but hey you never know right. Most likely a fling. Just be yourself, see where it goes.
If you try to be a gentleman more than you would with someone your age she'll probably really like it - if she's like me she has probably gone out with guys up to 40 or so and with money, so for instance things like opening the door, etc, are nice, because on most dates we go on its just a given. Also it really is customary for the guy to pay, its not a money thing ok, take her out for coffee if you can't afford to spend much, but get the check, -it is just a small touch that makes us feel like you are the man and we are the woman.
2006-09-19 23:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by kellyault20001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her like a lady, don't worry about the age difference. If you have the maturity required it will be evident. Just respect her and behave as a gentleman. Something you should always do in the presence of a lady, regardless of age.
Remember those simple points and you will win her heart and her confidence. Fail in any of them and you may as well go home (for her sake).
2006-09-19 23:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by AK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unlike the women your age, by 32 they demand to be treated well by men, so treat her right. That's about the only difference.
2006-09-19 23:28:49 · answer #5 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because someone is older doesn't mean they come from another planet.. My husband and I are 27 years apart in age , and I treat him as I would if he were any other age.. You should have to worry how to act around her..Just be yourself, If you don't hit it off with her it is not because she is older.. If you act to uncomfortable she will notice, I promise..
2006-09-19 23:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by Thin White Duke 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a firm believer in the individualized approach, treat others as they wish to be treated! Obviously she wants to spend time with you since she agreed to go out with you, so have fun! You can find out what types of things she enjoys or what kind of food she likes, etc...
Beyond that, relax and have fun!
2006-09-19 23:31:09 · answer #7 · answered by seaelen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoooo HOOOO!!! Im 31 and my boyfriend is just about 24. We get along great. Age is really just a number. When your personalities click, you don't need to worry about a thing. Treat her just like you would treat anyone else. More importantly, be yourself.
2006-09-19 23:30:37 · answer #8 · answered by nikki_butterfly777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 23 and dated a 30 year old, You just have to be yourself, thats all most women want you to be is your self.
2006-09-19 23:29:41 · answer #9 · answered by Big D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Mama is having some fun with her play thang. Just chalk it up as a learning experience and show her all the respect you would want someone to show your mom. She is about to teach you alot about how to love a womens' body right.
2006-09-19 23:30:33 · answer #10 · answered by Lady G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋